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Personal Day - Out Of Favors


I'm just having a real shat day, so I'm taking a personal blog day to talk about me. Ya'll don't mind do you?

First let me say Happy Birthday to an original MEM reader  : my cousin Tonya! I hope you have a blessed day! Even if you don't get everything you want today, thank God you were alive to see it. Check out her guest appearance on my post a while back here.

You know what I'm tired of ? I am tired of people only "checking up on me" when they need something.
I can hold up one hand of the people that hit me up to actually just say hello and check on me. That shit really irks me. Like I don't notice that you only ring my line when your in need of a make or break you favor. So if you think this is talking to you, I want you to get the rest of the group together and kiss my ass! Because once the favor is done ..... I don't hear from you until the next favor is needed.

I hate petty people. Like full out petty. Now I know I have some petty ways, that I am still at 25 working on; but again I'm working on it. Some of you mofo's just don't care. And that's fine with the kid. Just stay back.

I'm so tired of people thinking someone is hating on them, when they themselves misunderstood the situation. If I say girl my dream house is a 5 bedroom, 5 bath, fully brick, ocean view, swans swimming in the back, three maids, tree house for my future kids with a 4 car garage ..... then a few months later you say .... girl I just bought a house come see ..... and I get there ... and out walks three maids riding on a swan with wood to build that damn tree house! The lash that you get from me is not hatred, its PISSED! Because inside, I am stoked that you bought a house, but I'm livid that it had to be my dream house. Now I have to stop the construction on my house because I'll be DAMN if I'm a copy cat ass hoe!

I'm ending this by saying I love my circle. They keep me grounded and let me know " yes, shanice you are bugging, BUT you have every right to be. " We trash each other, laugh with each other, and never let anything really get in between us. If there is a disagreement then it gets squashed right there and we move on. I'm not a people person, and many people don't get me .. so shout out to the ones that do! Also I love my mama because she gives it to me straight and knows how to handle me. I mean .. she did make and raise me. I'm a brat but if my mama says I should be upset about something ... then I have every right to turn up on your ass because she is always telling me to check my tude at the door.

xoxoxo
Blue Ivys Crown


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