Dear Mr. Elevator Man

Dear I Only Love Natural Hair People, LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE!!!! No serious ... leave ... me .... alone!!! I do not care that you don't like weave, or braids, or anything other than this afro puff. THIS AINT YO GAH DAMN HEAD!!! Unless you plan on going to hair school ( i know the real name of it ), and doing my natural hair HOW I WANT IT everyday .... you can join Spongebob Squarepants at driving school and love on Mrs. Puff bald head ass. I don't understand why you are so concerned with my hair. It doesn't change my blackness, it doesn't change my feelings toward black issues .. what is does it let my black ass sleep in a little bit more in the morning, it gives my hair relief from being handled every day, it helps me express myself with curls, colors, and cuts without damaging this CROWN OF GLORY underneath it all.  It seems like you need to have a little talk with your Jesus ... TELL 'EM ... tell him all about your I only love people with natural hair ...

Welcome! Let me tell you right now I am not in the mood umkay?! I haven't been blogging because my job has me SKKRRREEEESSSSEEEEDDDDD AAAAHHHHHTTTTT ( in my plies voice). I literally just want to sleep when I get home. Unfortunately I end up getting dragged out the house anyways, and honestly that's a good thing. So I'm going to ease back in this thang and I have some surprises/changes happening in March for the blog. Anywho let's get to what I want to talk about today .... 1. Natural Hair isn't for Er'body .....

Dear Shanice, I know that you stated that you are a natural girl. I have been natural for about 2 years now and this guy I have been seeing hates it. When we first met I wore weaves and braids because I wanted to protect my hair so it would grow healthy. I told him before we got serious that I was natural and showed him a photo of me without my weave. He had no problem. Now that my hair is longer, I don't wear weaves much or braids. He always hints at other girls weaves, asking me if he bought it would I wear it, even schedule an appointment for me to get some installed. I'm to the point where I cannot deal with it anymore. I expressed my feeling to him about it and he hasn't said much about it since but I can tell how he looks at me when I'm ready to go out that he doesn't like it. Any advice on this matter? - Vicki Hey Vicki girl! Well I say just get a weave and call it a day. NOT! Listen, my hunny doesn't care if I am natural or relaxed, as long as i...