Dear Mr. Elevator Man

Dear Danny, I have been seeing this guy for six months now and everything was fine until I Lost weight. Now every time I put something on he has to examine it and tell me what he likes or doesn't like or approve if I can wear or not. I have lost over hundred pounds in a year and enjoy showing off my new figure. I'm not that comfortable in my new body so I rarely wear anything that's mid drift but I do have a new love for tights. Now everywhere we go if a guy is looking at me he catches an attitude and tell me that I'm asking for the attention.

This photo has nothing to do with my topic but i just think it's so funny ... lmao!!!!! If someone tells you that they are not ready for a relationship BELIEVE THEM!! It doesn't matter how they are treating you, if they have sat right in your face and said " hey I'm not looking to settle down yet. "

Wassup Wasup Wassup Wassup Wassup ... LADIES ... Wassup Wasup Wassup Wassup Wassup .. * enters twerk mode * Random post fa that ass! This engagement has my world UP SIDE DOWN. So after this party, I will be back like like roaches in the projects :) Until then I'll pop in and out if I want to say sum sum .. Well let's get jiggy with it

Dear Sandra from Wal-Mart, Today would have been the day that I would've realized a few things. 1.My pants have not touched my shoes in a while, because you are flooding for life girl .. 2. This headband I have on doesn't match SHIT I'm wearing and 3. WalMart does NOT pay me enough to resist whooping this lady ass on site right now. Sandra girl .. I don't know how you just let this lady in the self check out curse you out like this and you just walked away. Listen here .. Wal-Mart does not pay ANYBODY enough to not knock this lady up side her head. See this would've been the time I would've been behind the register like " ma'am, I'm not about to be to many more bitches before I been knocked yo ass into another line ya'hear?" But again, that's just me. Futhermore you gone let the lady checking out with the food-stamp card, bring out a wad of cash and tell You .. Yes You Sandra girl .. that she can make it rain on ya ass. I mean r...

YYYYAASSSSS ..... If you do not follow me on social media then you do not know bbbuuttttt I got ENGAGED YESTERDAY!!!!!! 

I'm so tired of seeing people "beef" and fight on FB from my small town. I know each small town has it's problems, but GAH DAMN!! I swear it seems like every year it gets worst. I can't even fault the younger kids for being out here in the streets, showing no respect for elders, fighting over petty shit, keeping up drama because the older "grown ups" are doing showing them how to act. At what age are you going to stop fighting? You do know that is a crime right? You also have someone else stupid ass out here recording it as evidence. NEWS FLASH : Once something is placed on the internet, even deleted, it can still be found. Employees are on all social network and with a city as small as Decatur, they will find the videos. I wanna know what one must say to you to get you ready to fight? I'm almost 26 years old and unless you put your hands on me, chile you can miss me with all that running off at the mouth shit, ESPECIALLY on social media. I do not ...

HHHHEEYYYYHHHOOOO!! Remember Brittany from Pregnant by my Youth Director?   Well Miss Ma'am has emailed me back with a follow up and I am LIVID!! I am now personally talking to her because this is just wrong. This blog has become a way bigger thing than me and if you write me, I'm going to help you. Her issue has so many topics I want to speak about, and I will, but for right now I'm just trying to open her eyes. Dear Miss Shanice, I told my mom and she was pretty upset. I have been talking to HIM and he really hasn't been supportive. He won't answer my calls and completely ignores me in church. I texted him what did I do to him to make him treat me like this and he said, not getting an abortion. That really mad me upset so I went and told my mom who the baby of my unborn child was. She didn't believe me until I showed her a message from him. I thought she would be upset about reading the abortion part but she was just mad at me for being a "stupid gi...

Happy Monday!!!! I hope you are all having a great Monday so far. In deciding to do more this year, I'm heading out tonight with a group of friends to a comedy event. WHOOP WHOOP! Anywho enough about me, let's get to this reader letter shall we? Don't forget to Like,Comment and SUBSCRIBE!!

Dear Shanice, A month ago my friends jumped this girl over some Facebook beef. Basically one of my friends on and off again boyfriend started dating this girl and posting her all over social media. My friend was still sleeping with him and started tagging the girl in statuses. It became real messy and they decided to jump her at her job. I told them this was a dumb idea but these dumb asses decided to do it anyway. They waited until she got off and jumped her at her job. They broke both her legs,cracked her jaw, busted up get face real bad and did something to her back. She doesn't know who jumped her but her mother is pressing charges. I am no longer friends with these girls because I'm very ashamed of this. My question is should I volunteer information to her mother. She has asked me if I knew who did it, because everyone knows they were beefing , and I have just kept my mouth closed. The police are investigating as well.They have threaten to beat me up if I say anything ...

Sorry for the late post. The man of the house has the flu. Ain't nobody got time for THAT! Anywho on to my boo .. Miss Nina Sky! Since you guys have last had an update from Nina she has moved in with her new man and is now late. As in my period is 28 days late and it's day 30 late. This man has bought her a whole new life. He packed up her old apartment and put all her stuff in a storage. Bought her new clothes and forbids her to work. Sounds like a psycho freaky killa to me but hey, I'm just a girl with a blog. After I cursed her ass out for not using protection with this new ass man she doesn't really know, and her being to comfortable with this new lifestyle .. this is her reply to me ... I'm talking in the red Shanice, Still late but I'm having a little spotting so maybe it will come any day now.  I didn't purposely have unprotective sex with him, it just happened. (umkay girl I guess ) Do I regret it? No. I mean I love him. I don't wan...

Dear Shanice, I have been dating a man for 2 years now and have never been to a holiday dinner. I have never been to a family gathering of his period and he always "comes up missing" when I invite him to mine. Last year, I logged into his phone and added him on my where are friends apps on my iphone. I called him to see if I could come over and he said he wasn't there yet. I checked my app and pulled up on him at his aunts house. I called him again and he said he wasn't there and I told him I was "riding around" and saw his car outside a house and stopped.

Dear Shanice, My name is Brittany and I am an 18 year old college student. I started college at the age of 17. During the summer, I came back home and my mother got me a job working for the churches summer camp. I was supervised by our youth director. Now I have always thought my youth director was very attractive but he was engaged and I knew I wasn't his type. He had been my youth director for two years. One day I was cleaning the kitchen and he came up behind me. He wrapped his arms around me and said he just wanted to thank me for helping him. I told him, no problem and thanked him for the job. Every now and then he would hug me, touch me, or stare at me for a long time. He started flirting with me and telling me his personal issues with his fiance and it made me fall for him. Yes, I know I was stupid, but I really liked him. At the end of the summer we take the kids on a week long cabin trip. Everyone who had worked on the program goes. One night we w...

We had a super late dinner and slept. I did 100 home, grabbed my hoe bag and headed downtown. (Don't act like ya'll don't or haven't had a hoe bag before. You know deodorant, razor, toothbrush, pair of clothes, and so forth)

Personal battles are the worst. I clocked out of social media about a month ago, other than a status on FB here and there, because I needed to find me. I was unhappy with life due to some decisions I have made, and I needed to start taking responsibility for those things and get back to my happiness. As I am on this journey back to my original self, I want to talk about responsibility.

This here girl has had a very stressful few months. I am still stressed but last Saturday I took myself out for a day. I'm very much a home body so it doesn't take much to get me excited. I ended up getting a mani, shopping, eating shit I shouldn't, and just letting all my worries wash over me. I hope to make some swift changes soon so that I can get back to my original mean happy self. LOL. If that made any sense.  So just a few letters of the things I saw on my day out :

I don't know what his name is but he is a sexy chocolate man. He comes at the same time the head master comes and I am THANKFUL because I haven't talked to him since that threesome. For some reason he has started calling me Queenie. I have no problem with that because he is fine as fuck and drops enough money on me that I don't even have to work weekends. The first night I was in VIP alone with him he told me my smile didn't come to my eyes. Corny ass nigga. I told him I was tired and needed a weekend off. He asked how much do I usually make during a weekend. I told him, and I was chilling in my pj's the following Friday - Sunday. I didn't know if he was going to come tonight but I put on my BEST SHIT! Thigh high tights, skirt that comes up above my ass cheeks, and lace bikini. I was ready for him. The head master came in and started pointing towards me to the security. I damn near ran to NFL and said if you want me, you better take me now. We ended up in ...

It's super gloomy here in the ATL so why not get a few dumb young people together shall we :) Yesterday I got an email from a girl asking me about birth control. This lead to a HOST of emotions I began to feel. For one, I got on birth control because I KNEW in my spirit someone would spike my drink at a college party, rape me, and now I have a rap baby. (I'm being real, I hope I don't offend anyone). Now I KNOW I would not be able to deal with that, so pop 1 pop 2 ... birth control here we come. Now my birth control had me up and down, and very much up on the weight scale. I gained A LOT. No one ever tells you about all the shit inside those little pills that spot birth. I even had one pill that gave me EVERY SINGLE pregnancy system. I threw that shit at my doctor the next visit. Do you know how many pregnancy test you can buy in 10 weeks pass your cycle day? A LOT! Chile .. the lady at CVS was so confused when I was buying tampons and pee test. LOL. This all leads ...

Happy Monday guys!!! Reader Letter Time : Dear Shanice, I will make this quick. I started dating this guy in high school and shortly found out that he was my step cousin. My mother had married his uncle. We continued to date for about 1 year until everyone in the family found out and forced us to break up. After graduation, we went off to the same college. Since we didn't really break up on bad terms and no one was around we started back dating. That was 1 year ago and now I am pregnant with his child. I do not feel bad about this because honestly, we aren't really related but I know my mother will be upset. Is there a certain we can tell our family without them getting mad? I am 3 months now and starting to show some, so I need to tell them. Holidays are coming up and it will be very awkward for my mom, but honestly we were dating before my mom married his uncle. We are going to move into an apartment together, finish school and raise our child together. Thanks! S...

Well I am,and I create a business all about it! Whew! This took me some long nights of restlessness to get this all up and going. I'm still very nervous but all in all I have faith in my little baby business. Although I have other businesses that I choose not to speak on, this one I will be promoting here often.

This ride home. I just keep looking at my phone thinking, this can't be real. You don't fuck the nigga that cash out on you at the club. That makes you one of them.