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Ex Wife is in, I am Out - Reader Letter

Dear Shanice, My name is Rose. Currently I was dating an older male and he was recently divorced. He told me that him and his ex wife grew apart. That he stopped finding  her attractive and soon the love went left. He said he hated her style of fashion, and so forth. Because I thought this was going to be my husband, I found his wife's social media accounts and made sure I was to complete opposite of what she was. I'm not going to lie, she was a very attractive older lady and her style was not bad at all. So I kicked my fashion up a few notches, started wearing more heels, more make up, switching up my hair styles and he loved it. After a few months of dating, he told me he loved me and once my lease was up on my apartment we should move in together. The thing is I had just signed a new lease so that was gonna be at least a year. I told him I could just buy out of it but he said no, a year would give us more time to get closer and you never know what would happen. He said an...

Baby's Out - Now What?!

HHHHHHHHHHIIIIIIIIIIIIIII!!!! I been gone for a minute now I'm back with the jump off. So the baby is OUT! The marriage has hit it's first year mark! NAW WHA GIRL! I have been asking myself that for that last week now. Today my little sweet baby is in his swing and mama has actually COOKED DINNER! Ya'll I done cookeded a meal! Like a meat and two sides type meal. I'm proud LOL! A few weeks ago I would be hoovering over him watching him sleep. Anywho - back to the question. What am I to do now that baby is out!?  GET TO THIS SHAMONEY IS WHAT!! Having my son didn't give me a surge of "I gotta get get iittt" (s/o to Jeezy) but it did give me a surge in a timeline. I have always said I want to buy my first house at this age, have this much done by this age and honestly all that moved up a few years now. It feels super weird getting back into business mode now with my son b/c quick jobs I used to do - I now need to find a reliable sitter that can be...

That One Time I Got Married

This post is long over due but dah welp! My life has been a ROLLER-COASTER to say the least since 2016 began. But in May of 2016 , this ma'am got MERRIED!!! Yes MERRIED! Quick Breakdown : My Dress : ordered offline Our Hair : Annoited Hands, Amber Davis Bridesmaids :Designed and made by Bianca Loren Make Up : Brianna( myself and a few bridesmaids ), Some Mac Workers, Some bridesmaids Groom & Groomsmen : Savvy Flower Girl : Etsy Flappers : Halloween Customs Online Little Men : Belk & their closets (lol) Brides Mother : David's Bridal Grooms Mother : Dillards All Decoration & Floral arrangements : I Do ... Creations with a little help from my husband Wedding Director : Mrs. Milicent Wedding Coordinator : MIL Cocktail Hour Set : Tina Ok so my wedding was a big one. We had about 440 people there. Planned for 500, so we were in the clear on setting! The great thing is a lot of people who RSVP'd didn't show and A LOT of people that didn't ...