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Baby Daddy Got My Cousin Pregnant Update!

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Dear Shanice, 

Thanks for replying to my message. I did what you said and told my family. Well just my mom and close cousins and they were furious to say the least. Her mom, my aunt, didn't believe she was pregnant. So she went out and bought a test to make her take in front of us. I was crying the entire time because I didn't understand why I needed to be there to witness the madness. Pregnancy hormones, smh. Long story short. she wasn't pregnant. She said "she miscarried" a few days before but no one believed her. I just don't understand what I did to her to make her do that to me. I told her she could have him because me nor my baby needed him in our lives. No I will not be keeping my baby from him, because he is the father, but there will be no family. I kicked him out before you replied to the email. LOL. I was sick of looking at his face. Everytime he smiled down at his phone I thought it was her. Thats some stress I didn't need with carry a child. Hell carrying a child is enough. I am moving into a bigger apartment and my sister is going to live with me since she is trying to get out of our parents house. I'll keep you updated. Thanks again!

Hello girl that I don't know your name, LOL. Oh wait, its Niyah like my niece. smh. Anywho .... I'm glad you kick that no good man out and I'm super excited your cousin isn't pregnant. My advice is stay focused on you and your baby! Your Mister Mister will come soon enough. Don't forget that Child Support! He seems like the type of man that won't do until you make them. 

xoxoxox
Shanice 

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