My Cousin Is Pregnant By My Baby Daddy - Reader Edition

Dear Shanice, 

I hope you are doing well, and I just wanted to let you know I live for your post. I need some advice and I don't feel comfortable talking to others about this because its very close to home. My name is Niyah, I'm 24 years old and pregnant. My baby father and I are no longer together because I caught him cheating with my cousin. Yes , my FIRST cousin. His phone had been going off like crazy when he was in the shower and I thought it was urgent. I told him and he said check it to see who it was. Lo and behold, it was my 19 year old cousin, saying she was late. I could not do anything but cry. He rushed out of the bathroom and I hit him in the face with my phone. He kept saying oh she is just joking she is just joking,so I called her. She told me they had been messing around for 3 months. Mind you, I'm 4 months pregnant. Now my cousin is very attractive and pretty easy if you get where I'm going, but why would you sleep with my cousin. Long story short, she is pregnant, I am pregnant and he wants me back. He keeps telling me it was dumb, he doesn't know what he was thinking, and I know he is full of shit. I still can't help to want him back. I never wanted this for us and I damn sure don't want this for my child. "Supposedly" , it could be him and someone else that are the father but that doesn't make up that you fucked my cousin. I let him back in to help me but I told him we are no longer an item. Once my baby is born and I'm on my feet, I will be moving away from him. My family doesn't know, and I am ashamed. Any advice would be great! Thanks Girl.

OOOOHHHH SHITTTT!!!!! First of all, congrats on your baby. Babies are always blessings. Second of all, once you'll drop those kids, you owe your cousin an ass whooping! * puts on glasses* Let's start off with the baby father, umkay! FACK HIM! Regardless of how your cousin looks, that's some low down shat! Some people can forgive others for cheating, but when you cheat with a family member, as K Kamp Say " Cut That Bih OFF!". There is nothing he can say or do that makes sense. AND HE DID HER RAW! *gags* I know your emotions are HIGH but hunny if he cheats on you with a family member, he probably has allllll types of hoes out here in these streets. Leave him alone. You don't deserve that. Remember " THE FAMILY FUCKED MY HUSBAND. THAT'S RIGHT,FAITH FUCKED MY HUSBAND!" If you have a sibling, ask them to stay with you to help you and kick him out. You will block your Mr. Right, trying to be kind to Mr. Hell No, while he still sleeping with your cousin. Now as far as your cousin goes, after the ass beating . your relationship is up to you. Now me personally, there would be no relationship. Family is all that I have and for you to fuck my man, is one of the deepest cuts you can make on me. People can say oh she is young and dumb, but nah, that bih a hoe. You are not another random girl in these streets and first cousins are your first real friends. That means, she doesn't give a shit about your happiness! If she is pregnant by your baby father, I PRAY she isn't, then she is going to be more in your life than before. Your child will have another sibling, and unfortunately, she will be around. Yes your kids will  be brother/sister/cousins, but it's not your fault! TELL YOUR FAMILY!! Trust me, they will not be looking at you sideways. It's that triflin heifer that will be talked about.  I hope you have a great pregnancy, and get a BIG child support check, cause that man aint shit! Hopefully, he will be a better father to your child, than he was a partner to you. I hope this helps!