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Dear MEM : I Think She's Cheating ...

So .... here we are again, you asking me for advise, me not giving a crap about the situation. < insert eye roll> Let's get this over with shall we? UMKAY!

The saying is, once you go looking for trouble, you shall find it. Same thing in this situation, but you know what the difference is ...... most people know their "fiance's" back history. HA! So you go through her phone, see a few messages from guys you don't know. Well although they are not 100% innocent, there are really not that bad. Your issue is, you don't know who these people are, correct? Well if you would've taken the time to get to know your so called "fiance" you would know her ex boyfriends, family friends, guy next door who always like her, and so forth. BUT YOU DON'T! Why did you even go through her phone? That's so high school to me. If you can't trust someone, then you don't need to be with them. Now the really funny part is how you stalked her password for a week until you figured it out. LOL! Are you sure this is the person you want to have a baby with? So she made lunch arrangements with "Joe" but told you she was going to run some errands that day. Who said she isn't going to run errands? Omitting the truth is still a lie right? Well I don't know who Joe is and neither do you. What I do know is, maybe you should grow some balls and tell her you went through her phone. Ask her who Joe is. Don't follow her to the resturant then "consequentially" be eating at the same place at the same time. Honestly, you are worried about text messages when you guys don't live together,or even in the same metro city, AND YOU DON'T HAVE A KEY TO HER HOME! Hell Joe could be knocking her down every night. HEY HEY HEY I'm JUST saying, text messages would be the least of my worries. So ask her or shut up. Either way, I don't care, and I'm getting off this elevator now. 

xoxoxo
The girl Sisco made the song about

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