Dear Mr. Elevator Man

Dear MEM,  I don't live in this area anymore but the one day I decide to head to Publix's, I see you. I didn't know whether to stop and catch up or just go about my business. So me being me ..... I just keep it trucking down the aisle. BUT you being you stopped me and here we are. Let's go ahead and play catch up!  1. Your fiance wants to go to marriage counselling to see if you guys will work. I think that's a great idea! I'm not sure why you are so upset about it. Don't you want to know her different takes on situations? I know I would. I think she is just being cautious since you guys JUST MET; "technically"   2. Your moms are fighting!!! This is horrid, since they are the ones that hooked you guys up! You need to sit down with them both and explain your relationship. On one side, stop telling your mom everything that's going on in your relationship. Of course she's going to say something to your fiance's mom, THEY'RE ...

Dear MEM,  While you're in your place and your fiance located in her home, do you see it? When you roll over at night, to the cold side of the bed; do you feel it? When you're watching a movie and your laughter is the only one you hear, do you hear it? Has reality not set in yet? The reality that you are engaged yet you don't eat together, live together, sleep together, or talk to each other often. This time now, that you are getting alone, is your time to SEPARATE & SEE. It's time for you to realize that maybe I, we, rushed into this. And maybe I thought this was what I wanted but in actuality, I really just want to be loved. I really just wanted someone to play in my hair while we are watching tv, fall asleep mid movie then wake up asking what happened. I just wanted someone to roll over into my arms and tell me my breath is horrid this morning, then laugh and get under the covers to avoid it. Have you realized you just wanted someone to argue with about what to...