Dear Mr. Elevator Man

Listen .... We get it Sis! WE ....GET.....IT!! The men you have dated over your ENTIRE life time have been TRASH. You do not have to remind us every few weeks. But I want to let you in on a little secret that you might not know umkay? ALL MEN AREN'T TRASH! Whew! I'm so glad I was able to let you in on that secret. Feel better? I do! Honestly though I'm over the man bashing on social media. I'm not sure if ya'll think rallying together on the "men aren't shit" trip is going to help you find a good man or even have one approach you but ummm .. it's not helping your situation. No matter how much you talk about oh I'm staying single forever, I don't need a man, I'm so happy to be in my bed knowing a man ain't cheating on me, you talk ... I BET YOU A MILLION DOLLARS THAT I DON'T HAVE ... when that right man comes around all that talk will change. Right hand to God, the aliens, and ancestor I do NOT want to be single. That si...

Two things that I know for sure will happen in life. You are born and you will die. Death .... I have had some rough dealing with death when it comes to family. My grandfather on my dad side, moved to TX and had a heart attack. It was a closed casket - and it didn't fully hit me until I was about 16 and I saw a man that looked just like him. I waved at the man and the man waved back. I LITERALLY was about to walk over to him. Then the flood gates opened and I cried a solid week in my room. He was my pen-pal, first person to put sugar on my popcorn -which my siblings and I do to this day , debate with me, and so forth. It just didn't seem real, because I didn't see him again. I didn't SEE him in the casket, but I knew he was in the casket. My grandmother on my dad side passed away from breast cancer and a tumor ( if i'm not mistaken ). I was there the entire ordeal. From her being mobile to just laying in the bed making noises. I was in the room when she passed. ...

Dear Danny, When do you think a man should be taken back in a relationship? My boyfriend of 2 years just told me about how you cheated on me with multiple women for the first year of our relationship. As he puts it "he has grown so much since then and he had to get the truth off he's chest". This I found out was a lie because I got a Facebook message from one of the girls telling me that he had a 3 month old son. When I confronted him about it, after taking he's lying ass back in, he told me he went and got a DNA test and the baby isn't he's. Which only pisses me off even more because you are out here having unprotected sex with these women and we keep it wrapped up tight over here because of my trust issues. My friends are telling me to give him another chance since it was over a year ago and he told me instead of me finding out but I really want to say fuck him. We do not live together so it's not like I have to split up shit between us. I want to go t...

Sorry for the late post. The man of the house has the flu. Ain't nobody got time for THAT! Anywho on to my boo .. Miss Nina Sky! Since you guys have last had an update from Nina she has moved in with her new man and is now late. As in my period is 28 days late and it's day 30 late. This man has bought her a whole new life. He packed up her old apartment and put all her stuff in a storage. Bought her new clothes and forbids her to work. Sounds like a psycho freaky killa to me but hey, I'm just a girl with a blog. After I cursed her ass out for not using protection with this new ass man she doesn't really know, and her being to comfortable with this new lifestyle .. this is her reply to me ... I'm talking in the red Shanice, Still late but I'm having a little spotting so maybe it will come any day now.  I didn't purposely have unprotective sex with him, it just happened. (umkay girl I guess ) Do I regret it? No. I mean I love him. I don't wan...

We had a super late dinner and slept. I did 100 home, grabbed my hoe bag and headed downtown. (Don't act like ya'll don't or haven't had a hoe bag before. You know deodorant, razor, toothbrush, pair of clothes, and so forth)

This here girl has had a very stressful few months. I am still stressed but last Saturday I took myself out for a day. I'm very much a home body so it doesn't take much to get me excited. I ended up getting a mani, shopping, eating shit I shouldn't, and just letting all my worries wash over me. I hope to make some swift changes soon so that I can get back to my original mean happy self. LOL. If that made any sense.  So just a few letters of the things I saw on my day out :

I don't know what his name is but he is a sexy chocolate man. He comes at the same time the head master comes and I am THANKFUL because I haven't talked to him since that threesome. For some reason he has started calling me Queenie. I have no problem with that because he is fine as fuck and drops enough money on me that I don't even have to work weekends. The first night I was in VIP alone with him he told me my smile didn't come to my eyes. Corny ass nigga. I told him I was tired and needed a weekend off. He asked how much do I usually make during a weekend. I told him, and I was chilling in my pj's the following Friday - Sunday. I didn't know if he was going to come tonight but I put on my BEST SHIT! Thigh high tights, skirt that comes up above my ass cheeks, and lace bikini. I was ready for him. The head master came in and started pointing towards me to the security. I damn near ran to NFL and said if you want me, you better take me now. We ended up in ...

It's super gloomy here in the ATL so why not get a few dumb young people together shall we :) Yesterday I got an email from a girl asking me about birth control. This lead to a HOST of emotions I began to feel. For one, I got on birth control because I KNEW in my spirit someone would spike my drink at a college party, rape me, and now I have a rap baby. (I'm being real, I hope I don't offend anyone). Now I KNOW I would not be able to deal with that, so pop 1 pop 2 ... birth control here we come. Now my birth control had me up and down, and very much up on the weight scale. I gained A LOT. No one ever tells you about all the shit inside those little pills that spot birth. I even had one pill that gave me EVERY SINGLE pregnancy system. I threw that shit at my doctor the next visit. Do you know how many pregnancy test you can buy in 10 weeks pass your cycle day? A LOT! Chile .. the lady at CVS was so confused when I was buying tampons and pee test. LOL. This all leads ...

Happy Monday guys!!! Reader Letter Time : Dear Shanice, I will make this quick. I started dating this guy in high school and shortly found out that he was my step cousin. My mother had married his uncle. We continued to date for about 1 year until everyone in the family found out and forced us to break up. After graduation, we went off to the same college. Since we didn't really break up on bad terms and no one was around we started back dating. That was 1 year ago and now I am pregnant with his child. I do not feel bad about this because honestly, we aren't really related but I know my mother will be upset. Is there a certain we can tell our family without them getting mad? I am 3 months now and starting to show some, so I need to tell them. Holidays are coming up and it will be very awkward for my mom, but honestly we were dating before my mom married his uncle. We are going to move into an apartment together, finish school and raise our child together. Thanks! S...

Well I am,and I create a business all about it! Whew! This took me some long nights of restlessness to get this all up and going. I'm still very nervous but all in all I have faith in my little baby business. Although I have other businesses that I choose not to speak on, this one I will be promoting here often.

This ride home. I just keep looking at my phone thinking, this can't be real. You don't fuck the nigga that cash out on you at the club. That makes you one of them.

My Mother should be CEO of How To Deal With Shit Ass Fathers LLC. She was GREAT! I never heard one bad thing about my dad, until I brought it to her. Even then she would say, but he is still your dad. So Dear Mothers Of Fatherless Children, 1. Do NOT speak ill about your child's father, around your child. Now we all know how this person is, we all know he doesn't do SHIT, but children don't care who clothes them, feeds them, shelters them when it comes to dad. They love DAD. We know Dad showed up to this birthday party 3 hours late, with a piece of shit ass $5 toy but to this child ... Daddy came to my party. Once they become older and start expressing how they feel about their father not being there, always teach them to respect that person. 2. Don't hold it against him. Some men just aren't going to do what they said they were when you said "I'm pregnant". Remember that this child needs  both parents. If he can't come get him for the wee...

My emotions are EVERYWHERE this week. Thanks PMS.    I also had a lot on my mind last week that I was in no mood to actually blog. BBBUUUTTT I'm BACK! While visiting home a few weeks ago, one of my aunt's asked me about how my relationship with my father is. I told her the truth. What relationship? I know he is alive, that's pretty much as far as it goes. She goes on to tell me we need to work it out, I am still clueless on what the issue is, my brother and sister are there telling me I'm stubborn. The Truth is I.AM.TIRED.

I'm tired and  not feeling like posting so here is an extra from Nina! If you missed the before story,it's literally right under this one. See you on Monday! Did I hear him right? VIP Section tonight? Me? I was already sweating bullets and my shift hadn't even started yet. Damn, Damn, Damn! I get to work with TeTe, who is always nice to me, so I should be fine. Hopefully the men will just want her more than me. I'm not fucking nobody and that's a promise! I've heard about what goes on in there, hell even smelled it. I'm not turning into one of those girls. I'm already a regular, when I was just trying to get some rent money. I ask TeTe who is in the VIP Section and she rolls her eyes and says " local celebrities". I tell her I'm nervous as shit and she just laughs. The body guard comes in and says some homegrown NFL player is in VIP now waiting. I can't do this. I should quit right now. Maybe I can talk them out of the VIP Secti...

If you need a recap click here! I go by Nina Spice, but you can call me Nina. Now this isn't my real name, but it seems that I am turning more into the person I am when I perform, then the real one I take home every night. You know how you say, I'm just going to do this ONE TIME, yup that's me. One time turned into 2 times a month, now I am a regular at the club. I LOVE IT! I love the club. On any given day, I am just a regular girl, that most men pass by. I cover up because I am not 100% sure about my own body. Oddly enough when I put on my "work" attire, and I walk to the stage ...... Nina Spice is fully available for you to seek all she has to offer. I'm your man's perfect stripper. I'm friendly, I give him all the attention, and even when he gets a little hands on ..... I let 'em. So he continues to come back just to see is Miss Spice is working tonight. My real life is in shambles. I hate school, I hate lying about my work, people are ...

Afternoon ............ I feel like SHAT! No seriously I have not been feeling well since Friday. I had to leave work on Friday and it come in waves. I was ok this weekend but I knew if I eat to much I would over do it. I lost 5 pounds though! Even though it wasn't the healthy way. Heck, I may lose 5 more if things continue to go this way. I have plans to go to the hospital sooner or later. Knowing me, it'll be later than sooner. I am just terrified of needles ya'll! I also broke my iphone and it doesn't work. I'm not at all upset about it. (: I am taking a MUCH needed break from the "social" world and focusing on me. Everyone who needs to contact me knows how, and if you don't ... well there is a contact form on here if you want to chat or have a question. Earlier this month when I lost my first 15/17 pounds, I took a social media break. It was AWESOME! I lived! I didn't live so I could post it online, or dress up so I could post the selfie...

Good Morning! So this morning this guy parked pretty close to me, I back out and pull back in to make sure I have room to get out. Listen, again I am not thin, I have to get all this ass out my low riding car. So as I open my door, it taps his door. You would've thought I put a dent in the door and called his mother everything but her name. My day has already started off bad. -_-

No, seriously .. I have nothing to talk about today. The weird part is I actually sung the title in my Tina Turner voice. * starts rocking my shoulders * I have three back to back meetings in 10 minutes, so let's knock this out AIGHT! 1. Support black businesses. These are usually the first places to hire US! I hate to see people try to knock other people down because they aren't doing shit. There is clothing store in my hometown that is doing very well for themselves and people STAY trying to go at them. I've been in there a few times, but until I get this weight up off me ... ummm shawty can't wear nothing in there. But it's cute tho!!  2. STFU sometimes! GAH DAMN! Sorry, I just needed that. I swear some of you guys just talk and fuss to do so. You know how your parents use to say " shut up cause nah you just talking to hear yourself talk". Oh , so ya'll trying to say that was just my mama? Whatever ... 3. Last but not least ... if you a...

I'm going to tell you RIGHT NOW ... this post is NOT what you think it is. If you have a comment back about what I'm about to say. be respectful. I am NOT in the mood today. I have a headache, these people in my work inbox are nuts and I'm hungry. So I want to talk to my ladies about keeping your gah damn hands to yourself. Let me say that I am NOT here for domestic violence AT ALL! I will not be commenting on the Ray Rice situation, point, blank, period. I will be talking about handsy ass women. I think I just made that word up ... anyways ...

Dear White Lady at my job, I'm MORE than positive you have seen big butts before but for some odd reason, you have an issue with mines. I do not wear tight clothes because, I'm a thick girl .. my everything needs to breath; but my dresses do rise in the back as I walk. I cannot help that it does that. You should really take this up with my parents or God because I didn't create me. I just want to tell a few things for you so this awkward stare at my ass, face pinched up, situation can move along. Yes I do see you making faces when I walk by, and even discussion my butt with others, which is WEIRD!