It's super gloomy here in the ATL so why not get a few dumb young people together shall we :)
Yesterday I got an email from a girl asking me about birth control. This lead to a HOST of emotions I began to feel. For one, I got on birth control because I KNEW in my spirit someone would spike my drink at a college party, rape me, and now I have a rap baby. (I'm being real, I hope I don't offend anyone). Now I KNOW I would not be able to deal with that, so pop 1 pop 2 ... birth control here we come.
Now my birth control had me up and down, and very much up on the weight scale. I gained A LOT. No one ever tells you about all the shit inside those little pills that spot birth. I even had one pill that gave me EVERY SINGLE pregnancy system. I threw that shit at my doctor the next visit. Do you know how many pregnancy test you can buy in 10 weeks pass your cycle day? A LOT! Chile .. the lady at CVS was so confused when I was buying tampons and pee test. LOL.
This all leads to me saying, why don't you young people want to protect yourselves more and why are you rushing to settle? But girl, they tell me , we been together for like 2 years and I'm ready to get married and have kids. MEANWHILE you NOR the person you are dating can combine you income to not live on section 8. You want kids, but your parents are still paying ALL your bills. And BEFORE YOU SAY IT ... cellphone bills ain't shat! Half of you'll got Terrible mobile and they will let you be late 8 months before they stop you from calling out.
Don't want a kid because they are cute. Because you are already struggling and you want to bring a baby in this world? Look at your neighbor and say neighbor ..... these young couples dumb. I have lived with my boyfriend many of years and I just recently started to like him enough to see marriage in our future. No like for real for real. You have so many hurdles to over come before you can even get to married that some of you don't seem to understand. Let's not even talk about how you have to adjust financially. You THINK he paying for all those nice dinners and vacations. NO NO NO honey! It's time to compromise on some things. This here here dinner is coming out of OUR account. If you even make it to the part where there is your money, their money, and ya'll monies!!!
This post is getting long so let me just chop it up in a few points umkay!
1. You don't want anything rushed. Take your time. Live on your own before you EVER move in with someone you date. Know that you can do it on your own income. Don't have it where you have to have their portion of the rent to make it to next month.
2.You want a kid? Let's try keeping a family members for a week. I mean new one. Not one of those old ass babies. Get a fresh 5 month old. Pass that test and we can talk.
3. Stop getting on birth control because of man. Let it be your own choice. EVEN WHEN YOU DO get on birth control ... he needs to wear a condom. STD'S are alive and well ..uuuummmmkkkkkaayyyy!!!
Now my birth control had me up and down, and very much up on the weight scale. I gained A LOT. No one ever tells you about all the shit inside those little pills that spot birth. I even had one pill that gave me EVERY SINGLE pregnancy system. I threw that shit at my doctor the next visit. Do you know how many pregnancy test you can buy in 10 weeks pass your cycle day? A LOT! Chile .. the lady at CVS was so confused when I was buying tampons and pee test. LOL.
This all leads to me saying, why don't you young people want to protect yourselves more and why are you rushing to settle? But girl, they tell me , we been together for like 2 years and I'm ready to get married and have kids. MEANWHILE you NOR the person you are dating can combine you income to not live on section 8. You want kids, but your parents are still paying ALL your bills. And BEFORE YOU SAY IT ... cellphone bills ain't shat! Half of you'll got Terrible mobile and they will let you be late 8 months before they stop you from calling out.
Don't want a kid because they are cute. Because you are already struggling and you want to bring a baby in this world? Look at your neighbor and say neighbor ..... these young couples dumb. I have lived with my boyfriend many of years and I just recently started to like him enough to see marriage in our future. No like for real for real. You have so many hurdles to over come before you can even get to married that some of you don't seem to understand. Let's not even talk about how you have to adjust financially. You THINK he paying for all those nice dinners and vacations. NO NO NO honey! It's time to compromise on some things. This here here dinner is coming out of OUR account. If you even make it to the part where there is your money, their money, and ya'll monies!!!
This post is getting long so let me just chop it up in a few points umkay!
1. You don't want anything rushed. Take your time. Live on your own before you EVER move in with someone you date. Know that you can do it on your own income. Don't have it where you have to have their portion of the rent to make it to next month.
2.You want a kid? Let's try keeping a family members for a week. I mean new one. Not one of those old ass babies. Get a fresh 5 month old. Pass that test and we can talk.
3. Stop getting on birth control because of man. Let it be your own choice. EVEN WHEN YOU DO get on birth control ... he needs to wear a condom. STD'S are alive and well ..uuuummmmkkkkkaayyyy!!!
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