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Hands and Feet Inside the Compartment

I'm going to tell you RIGHT NOW ... this post is NOT what you think it is. If you have a comment back about what I'm about to say. be respectful. I am NOT in the mood today. I have a headache, these people in my work inbox are nuts and I'm hungry.

So I want to talk to my ladies about keeping your gah damn hands to yourself. Let me say that I am NOT here for domestic violence AT ALL! I will not be commenting on the Ray Rice situation, point, blank, period. I will be talking about handsy ass women. I think I just made that word up ... anyways ...



I have personally seen a man get his ass BEAT TO SLEEP from a girl. No one stopped it. Everybody watched. This girl was bigger and stronger than him. She walked up to him asking if he had said this that and the other, and before he could even reply she had slammed his head into the brick wall behind him. Now to most women, he should not hit her back. Just in this situation why shouldn't he? She is the one that is actually BIGGER and STRONGER than him! Is it safe to say that he could call the police and file charges against her? If he was to hit her back, even if it doesn't phase her ( as most licks from females don't phase many men who are whooping up on them), would you be on her side?

Every man is NOT the same. Every women is NOT the same. Yes, men shouldn't hit women, but guess what ladies, we need to also keep our hands to ourselves. Every man is not the respectable man that your brother or cousins are. Some men don't give a fuck about you and as soon as you get upset and want to slap him upside the head, your ass is laid out on the floor. Is that your fault? Some say no, because he shouldn't have hit me. Some say it's 50/50 because if you would have not put your hands on him, he would not have hit you.

I'm on the fence about the entire situation. I know women who get beat just because when their man woke up she was smiling in her sleep and he didn't like it. Yes that crazy shit right there pisses me off. But I also know couples who fight. Like REALLY fight. I have nothing to say or judge them on because they are each passing licks, and most of the time it is started by the woman. I know for a fact, because I have heard it with my own ears, women will hit a man dead in his shit and say " and you bet not hit me back because I'm a girl". Girl WHET! You don't busted this man's lip and blacked his eye!!

I'm not saying either is better or worst. Well, actually hitting a female is horrid and no man should. I stand by that. I don't want anyone to get confused on this post thinking that I am blaming women for getting beat up. That is not what I am saying, and you should start over. But I also stand by women checking ourselves before we LAUNCH at a man because we are mad, and we think he isn't going to hit us. I know my boyfriend will not hit me. I have seen him and his sister almost WWE(F? child IDK) : RAW it out, but that doesn't mean I will put my hands on him.

Once again, all men aren't like this. I have seen women hit men WAY MORE than I have seen a man hit a woman. ( No, I'm not saying women abuse men more than men abuse women.) Again, I'm not saying this is right but no one should be putting their hands on each other period! Every man knows that one female that if she hits him, he will fight her because her licks are going to feel like a man's. Go with the Golden Rule : Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. MEANING : EVERYBODY KEEP YOUR GAH DAMN HANDS TO YOURSELF.

PS : To you low life ass men out here beating women, I hope those dogs Mike Vick were fighting, find you and eat your ass alive! You worthless piece of shit!

PPS : I didn't proof read this so deal with it ...
xoxo
ThisIsBoom

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