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I'm Sleeping With My Ex Boyfriends Best Friend - Reader Edition

Dear Shanice, 

So basically me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 3 months ago. We run in the same circle, so one night after hanging out his best friend brought me back to the house because I was wasted. One thing lead to another and we had sex. Since then we have had sex every week. The problem is my ex and I still talk.
I know his best friend would never say anything about it but now they are bumping heads. I'm in the middle! I have to listen to them dog each other out and I just want them to make up and be friends again. Now the best friend is spending more time over at my place, and my ex is trying to "work it out." I really care about my ex but I don't know what to do. I kind of feel bad for sleeping with his best friend but it's not like this all happen on purpose. The best friend saw that I was texting my ex and got really pissed. He told me that I couldn't ride the fence on this and I had to pick one. I already told him that I didn't want to be with him and this was just a little thing. So now I don't know what to do. Please help. 



Girl ....... are you a damn fool? No seriously, are you that mentally retarded that you don't see the hole you dug for yourself? Either way your ex boyfriend is going to find out your were sleeping with his best friend! There is always that one guys around that is waiting for your boyfriend to slip up so he can slip in and girl you fell right into the trap. You need to grow a pair and tell your ex because let me show you whats gone happen umkay?

Ex : Man STFU talking to me, You aint shit blah blah blah ..
Best Friend : Oh I aint shit? I must be something if i'm fucking yo girl! 
* fight starts ... scene ends *

You need to see the light at the end of the tunnel, and realized you messed up! You are sleeping with the enemy. He is NEVER going to take you out, and depending on how big or small your "circle" is ... you may lose a few friends. I hate this for you, but you did this to yourself. So tell him and get it over with. Kick the Best friend to the curb, because he is a snake and find a hobby. Your going to need it for these lonely nights. You sound really young in this letter so I hope you get it together soon, because there will be plenty more ex boyfriends best friends, looking for a quick smash.

What do you guys think?

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