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Bust into 2018 lliikkkeeee  ...


I'm not about to give ya'll the I'm Back spill b/c ccchhhiiillleeee .... I aint loyal. LMAO!! But seriously I am TRYING to be more consistent because this is a great outlet for me to express myself. PLUS you raggedy people in my inbox got my nerves bad with needing advice.

SO.....

How's ya 2018 going so far? As I am typing this my son is trying to crawl all over me, screaming MA MA MA MA, and my husband is trying to keep him away so I can finish this. LOL. THIS IS MY LIFE! I can't make eye contact with my own damn child or I will have to fight him into the play pen. I love it though.

Of course I've been seeing the negative things being said about people that say this new year, they are doing new things. Honestly, I just look over that negatively. If you are not looking forward to growing as a person. business owner, friend, mother, father, or whatever, than you are WWEEIIRRDDD! Of course people can start these things at any time of the year, BUT everyone knows a calendar year is something that comes full circle at the end of it. Why are ya'll so mad that they want to start their NEW YEAR off better than they ended their old one? I bet ya'll don't talk that shit to your bosses when its time for your yearly raises? My yearly raises never came on the anniversary of me working there, it always came at the new year. YOU KNOW WHY!!!! Cause that's when the budget are approved! But what do I know .. I'm just a lady with a baby and a blog.

I have self goals, hair goals, son goals, marriage goals, and business goals I'm looking forward to accomplishing this year! I hope you guys don't let others judgement knock you from wanting to better yourself. And hey, even if you only make it to after taxes, at least you tried right :) ?

We'll be back with the shits tomorrow! Don't forget to subscribe! Follow me on IG & SC itsfattie and send in your ManCrushMonday letters for Danny and DearMrElevatorMan for advice from me!!!

WRITE IT DOWN. MAKE IT REAL. WORK YOUR PLAN!

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