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If I Got Locked Up and Sentence to A Quarter Century

Could I count you to be there support me mentally? ............. HHHHEEELLLLL NO!

So the Real Housewives of ATL came back last night and bbbbaaaabbbbbbyyyyyy .... my emotions where everywhere ..






Let's run through the bullshat so we can get to Phaedra and Apollo umkay!
Nene : ok girl! I like the mid length blonde hair on your on WWHL.
Porsha : I want those titties to keep you working!
Cynthia : You lived in Nene's ass girl what are yo talking about?!!! Stop being on Kenya's side because you no longer like Nene. You are giving me "follower" vibes.
Kenya : Girl ..... I would've came by your house and whooped you again for pressing charges over a little hair pulling ... but whatever ...
Kandi : Can you adopt me? Like, I'm very serious. No, I take that back b/c I would curse your mama OUT! Way to keep friends business ... BETWEEN FRIENDS!

Now on to the topic at hand .... Apollo got 8 years ......
Phaedra did not go to the hearing with Apollo. Now, unlike other people, I remember their marriage being on shaky grounds before the season ended. Phaedra has always seem, to me, to be only giving us some of her life. We see what she wants us to see and other things we don't. What I'm not gone do it sit here and say "oh she knew about what he was doing" because I know a few women I can FB message right now that have no idea of where their husbands work. Hell some of ya'll men be cheating for YEARS and you don't know. It's not really that hard to fabricate a job, I mean that is what he went to jail for. Onwards and upwards shall we ..... 

The debate is : Should she have went to the hearing? I have two options. 

1. If you are REALLY over this man then no. I wouldn't have went to the court hearing. I WOULD HAVE, however, been at the house so he could see his children and love on them. I do not agree with that at all. Don't take kids away from their father. You could've stayed in the house, just like you stayed in that big ass hotel room, and let him see his kids.  

2. I, Shanice, would've went. I would have wore all black, with a black veiled hat, and black shades,. Yes bih I'm mourning! You take vows and I would try my best to suck it up and go to the hearing. I would not have brought my kids to the courthouse because it was hella camera's outside but I would've made sure he saw them before he left. 

What would you have done?

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