Dear Mr. Elevator Man

Welcome! Let me tell you right now I am not in the mood umkay?! I haven't been blogging because my job has me SKKRRREEEESSSSEEEEDDDDD AAAAHHHHHTTTTT ( in my plies voice). I literally just want to sleep when I get home. Unfortunately I end up getting dragged out the house anyways, and honestly that's a good thing. So I'm going to ease back in this thang and I have some surprises/changes happening in March for the blog. Anywho let's get to what I want to talk about today .... 1. Natural Hair isn't for Er'body .....

HHHHEEYYYYHHHOOOO!! Remember Brittany from Pregnant by my Youth Director?   Well Miss Ma'am has emailed me back with a follow up and I am LIVID!! I am now personally talking to her because this is just wrong. This blog has become a way bigger thing than me and if you write me, I'm going to help you. Her issue has so many topics I want to speak about, and I will, but for right now I'm just trying to open her eyes. Dear Miss Shanice, I told my mom and she was pretty upset. I have been talking to HIM and he really hasn't been supportive. He won't answer my calls and completely ignores me in church. I texted him what did I do to him to make him treat me like this and he said, not getting an abortion. That really mad me upset so I went and told my mom who the baby of my unborn child was. She didn't believe me until I showed her a message from him. I thought she would be upset about reading the abortion part but she was just mad at me for being a "stupid gi...

Happy Monday!!!! I hope you are all having a great Monday so far. In deciding to do more this year, I'm heading out tonight with a group of friends to a comedy event. WHOOP WHOOP! Anywho enough about me, let's get to this reader letter shall we? Don't forget to Like,Comment and SUBSCRIBE!!

Over the last few days I have saw all types of dumb ass shit about letting a man cheat on you and staying with the man. One word for you : Women let me tell you something real quick ...... if he cheats on you once there is a 80 % chance he will cheat on you again. ESPECIALLY if you are NOT MARRIED! Well, I mean ... nevermind ... Don't be out here being a damn fool for a man that's buying you a MK watch as an "I'm sorry" ...... chile BYE! It is a simple choice a persons makes to stay faithful to ONE PERSON or not. If you do not have enough respect for me to simple let this "new pussy" go fine another dog to pounce, then why are we even in this relationship. Because trust me, let you have sex with another man. He will be on Facebook the next day talking about how bitches ain't shit, they don't want a good man, all women are hoes, I did everything for this bitch and she fucking DaeDae on me .. yeah girl .. he gone clown your ass. THEN when y...

Dear Shanice, A month ago my friends jumped this girl over some Facebook beef. Basically one of my friends on and off again boyfriend started dating this girl and posting her all over social media. My friend was still sleeping with him and started tagging the girl in statuses. It became real messy and they decided to jump her at her job. I told them this was a dumb idea but these dumb asses decided to do it anyway. They waited until she got off and jumped her at her job. They broke both her legs,cracked her jaw, busted up get face real bad and did something to her back. She doesn't know who jumped her but her mother is pressing charges. I am no longer friends with these girls because I'm very ashamed of this. My question is should I volunteer information to her mother. She has asked me if I knew who did it, because everyone knows they were beefing , and I have just kept my mouth closed. The police are investigating as well.They have threaten to beat me up if I say anything ...

Yeah I forgot what number this is but it's a new year so let's start off with #1 umkay! 1. Ladies, if you man asked you to stop wearing that moo moo out in public like a dress, BIH STOP WEARING IT. I know we like to be comfortable, but come on nah ..... they way you get them is the way you keep them. I have a FEW period only outfits but they are tucked away and do NOT make it out the house. I am tired of seeing you with your Madam dress on and you man looking FINE at the movies. Just no .... 2. Baby hair ... can we let this go already? I'm so tired of you'll stretching that baby hair swoop all the way out on these sew ins. Push that shit back man and keep it pushing. Got dried up gel touching your eyebrows and shit. NO. Drop the tooth brush and walk away. 3. Men .... Please help me understand why you have on a long sleeve shirt, a pull over, and a jacket but you are still sagging? Like is your ass not cold? You just gone leave your ass out there to 'fend for i...

Sorry for the late post. The man of the house has the flu. Ain't nobody got time for THAT! Anywho on to my boo .. Miss Nina Sky! Since you guys have last had an update from Nina she has moved in with her new man and is now late. As in my period is 28 days late and it's day 30 late. This man has bought her a whole new life. He packed up her old apartment and put all her stuff in a storage. Bought her new clothes and forbids her to work. Sounds like a psycho freaky killa to me but hey, I'm just a girl with a blog. After I cursed her ass out for not using protection with this new ass man she doesn't really know, and her being to comfortable with this new lifestyle .. this is her reply to me ... I'm talking in the red Shanice, Still late but I'm having a little spotting so maybe it will come any day now.  I didn't purposely have unprotective sex with him, it just happened. (umkay girl I guess ) Do I regret it? No. I mean I love him. I don't wan...