Dear Mr. Elevator Man

ELLEEELLLOOOOO!!!!! I'm wondering where has the love gone?

New Monday spot! I get a nice amount of emails from men asking me things that honestly, I cannot answer. So Today I want to introduce #MCM Danny's Advice. Every Monday you can catch a topic/letter from him answering. We have some catching up to do but decided to jump on in with this question since I have been asked twice already. Enjoy!

Nina :  I haven't been out of this hotel since it happened. I miscarried. This is a bunch of words together because I can't seem to get my words together. I hate when people say, oh well you weren't that far along. Well I say FUCK YOU! 

I think Sunday's will be my hey let's talk about weight/what I'm eating/what I'm stressing about wedding spot. I don't really feel the " pressure " of blogging on Sunday's and I'm pretty sure no one will read this anyways. So let's see what I have to say this Sunday :)

Dear Shanice,  I started sleeping with my fiancee's sister about 2 months after we got engaged. We have always been cool, so it was never an issue for us to be alone with each other. She is buying a house and invited me to come along with her so she wouldn't be by herself with the Realtor. She bought a house that we both agreed on and to celebrate took me on a spa date. I cleared this with my fiancee and I headed to the hotel for my thank you spa day.

So here is a little story and I would like to share .. hopefully someone will reply with what they think .... If you met someone and they tell you they are separated from their spouse .. and you say oh what happened ..... and then they say ..... they just disappeared ..... my mind instantly goes to

Now on to the real deal holy-field ... I am OVER CHURCH! Whew .. that feels really good to say. When I was younger and I went to church is not the same church that I see today. I first felt this struggle when I went off to college. The church I would go to would HARP on giving, and basically made me feel horrible for not being able to give.   I don't care that it is 10% of what I have, if I don't have enough to sustain my living situation, I'm not giving it . I would see students giving their LAST, when they knew their parents wouldn't be sending any money for another week or two, so that they could get a blessing. I saw these same students packing extra food up to sneak back to the dorms because they had no more money. Because they were counting on that "blessing" you promised them to come through when they have you their last $20. Yes Jesus only ask for 10% of that, but there is always a program that is asking for a lending hand.  I think at this point ...