Dear Mr. Elevator Man

It has taken me all morning to gather my thoughts to even put down on paper. I really wish I could strike up a podcast, actively talk to people and share our thoughts. This is going to be a pretty lengthy post and all over the place but bare with me, I'm empty at this point.

Shonda will take your soul if you let her. She is a sick twisted black lady and I LOVE HER!! Chile, Scandal had me like Then How To Get Away With Murder had me like  Check out my rant about the wrap up! #scandal #htgawm

Dear Shanice, I have been dating a man for 2 years now and have never been to a holiday dinner. I have never been to a family gathering of his period and he always "comes up missing" when I invite him to mine. Last year, I logged into his phone and added him on my where are friends apps on my iphone. I called him to see if I could come over and he said he wasn't there yet. I checked my app and pulled up on him at his aunts house. I called him again and he said he wasn't there and I told him I was "riding around" and saw his car outside a house and stopped.

Dear Shanice, My name is Brittany and I am an 18 year old college student. I started college at the age of 17. During the summer, I came back home and my mother got me a job working for the churches summer camp. I was supervised by our youth director. Now I have always thought my youth director was very attractive but he was engaged and I knew I wasn't his type. He had been my youth director for two years. One day I was cleaning the kitchen and he came up behind me. He wrapped his arms around me and said he just wanted to thank me for helping him. I told him, no problem and thanked him for the job. Every now and then he would hug me, touch me, or stare at me for a long time. He started flirting with me and telling me his personal issues with his fiance and it made me fall for him. Yes, I know I was stupid, but I really liked him. At the end of the summer we take the kids on a week long cabin trip. Everyone who had worked on the program goes. One night we were sitting by the l

Could I count you to be there support me mentally? ............. HHHHEEELLLLL NO! So the Real Housewives of ATL came back last night and bbbbaaaabbbbbbyyyyyy .... my emotions where everywhere ..

We had a super late dinner and slept. I did 100 home, grabbed my hoe bag and headed downtown. (Don't act like ya'll don't or haven't had a hoe bag before. You know deodorant, razor, toothbrush, pair of clothes, and so forth)

What Would Hoodrats DO?

Personal battles are the worst. I clocked out of social media about a month ago, other than a status on FB here and there, because I needed to find me. I was unhappy with life due to some decisions I have made, and I needed to start taking responsibility for those things and get back to my happiness. As I am on this journey back to my original self, I want to talk about responsibility.

This here girl has had a very stressful few months. I am still stressed but last Saturday I took myself out for a day. I'm very much a home body so it doesn't take much to get me excited. I ended up getting a mani, shopping, eating shit I shouldn't, and just letting all my worries wash over me. I hope to make some swift changes soon so that I can get back to my original mean happy self. LOL. If that made any sense.  So just a few letters of the things I saw on my day out :

I really want to tell my boyfriend to take his belt off and give it to you. Why is your child IN the bathroom tissue section, knocking everything on the floor? When your OTHER child don' got a chair and push the bathroom tissue out the way so he can sit under it. AND you are just moving right along like this is normal. Giiiiirrrrrllllll,

I don't know what his name is but he is a sexy chocolate man. He comes at the same time the head master comes and I am THANKFUL because I haven't talked to him since that threesome. For some reason he has started calling me Queenie. I have no problem with that because he is fine as fuck and drops enough money on me that I don't even have to work weekends. The first night I was in VIP alone with him he told me my smile didn't come to my eyes. Corny ass nigga. I told him I was tired and needed a weekend off. He asked how much do I usually make during a weekend. I told him, and I was chilling in my pj's the following Friday - Sunday. I didn't know if he was going to come tonight but I put on my BEST SHIT! Thigh high tights, skirt that comes up above my ass cheeks, and lace bikini. I was ready for him. The head master came in and started pointing towards me to the security. I damn near ran to NFL and said if you want me, you better take me now. We ended up in

It's super gloomy here in the ATL so why not get a few dumb young people together shall we :) Yesterday I got an email from a girl asking me about birth control. This lead to a HOST of emotions I began to feel. For one, I got on birth control because I KNEW in my spirit someone would spike my drink at a college party, rape me, and now I have a rap baby. (I'm being real, I hope I don't offend anyone). Now I KNOW I would not be able to deal with that, so pop 1 pop 2 ... birth control here we come. Now my birth control had me up and down, and very much up on the weight scale. I gained A LOT. No one ever tells you about all the shit inside those little pills that spot birth. I even had one pill that gave me EVERY SINGLE pregnancy system. I threw that shit at my doctor the next visit. Do you know how many pregnancy test you can buy in 10 weeks pass your cycle day? A LOT! Chile .. the lady at CVS was so confused when I was buying tampons and pee test. LOL. This all leads

Happy Monday guys!!! Reader Letter Time : Dear Shanice, I will make this quick. I started dating this guy in high school and shortly found out that he was my step cousin. My mother had married his uncle. We continued to date for about 1 year until everyone in the family found out and forced us to break up. After graduation, we went off to the same college. Since we didn't really break up on bad terms and no one was around we started back dating. That was 1 year ago and now I am pregnant with his child. I do not feel bad about this because honestly, we aren't really related but I know my mother will be upset. Is there a certain we can tell our family without them getting mad? I am 3 months now and starting to show some, so I need to tell them. Holidays are coming up and it will be very awkward for my mom, but honestly we were dating before my mom married his uncle. We are going to move into an apartment together, finish school and raise our child together. Thanks! S

Hello, my name is D and I am bisexual.  I told my mom and she cried.

Well I am,and I create a business all about it! Whew! This took me some long nights of restlessness to get this all up and going. I'm still very nervous but all in all I have faith in my little baby business. Although I have other businesses that I choose not to speak on, this one I will be promoting here often.

This ride home. I just keep looking at my phone thinking, this can't be real. You don't fuck the nigga that cash out on you at the club. That makes you one of them.

My Mother should be CEO of How To Deal With Shit Ass Fathers LLC. She was GREAT! I never heard one bad thing about my dad, until I brought it to her. Even then she would say, but he is still your dad. So Dear Mothers Of Fatherless Children, 1. Do NOT speak ill about your child's father, around your child. Now we all know how this person is, we all know he doesn't do SHIT, but children don't care who clothes them, feeds them, shelters them when it comes to dad. They love DAD. We know Dad showed up to this birthday party 3 hours late, with a piece of shit ass $5 toy but to this child ... Daddy came to my party. Once they become older and start expressing how they feel about their father not being there, always teach them to respect that person. 2. Don't hold it against him. Some men just aren't going to do what they said they were when you said "I'm pregnant". Remember that this child needs  both parents. If he can't come get him for the wee

My emotions are EVERYWHERE this week. Thanks PMS.    I also had a lot on my mind last week that I was in no mood to actually blog. BBBUUUTTT I'm BACK! While visiting home a few weeks ago, one of my aunt's asked me about how my relationship with my father is. I told her the truth. What relationship? I know he is alive, that's pretty much as far as it goes. She goes on to tell me we need to work it out, I am still clueless on what the issue is, my brother and sister are there telling me I'm stubborn. The Truth is I.AM.TIRED.

I'm tired and  not feeling like posting so here is an extra from Nina! If you missed the before story,it's literally right under this one. See you on Monday! Did I hear him right? VIP Section tonight? Me? I was already sweating bullets and my shift hadn't even started yet. Damn, Damn, Damn! I get to work with TeTe, who is always nice to me, so I should be fine. Hopefully the men will just want her more than me. I'm not fucking nobody and that's a promise! I've heard about what goes on in there, hell even smelled it. I'm not turning into one of those girls. I'm already a regular, when I was just trying to get some rent money. I ask TeTe who is in the VIP Section and she rolls her eyes and says " local celebrities". I tell her I'm nervous as shit and she just laughs. The body guard comes in and says some homegrown NFL player is in VIP now waiting. I can't do this. I should quit right now. Maybe I can talk them out of the VIP Secti

If you need a recap click here! I go by Nina Spice, but you can call me Nina. Now this isn't my real name, but it seems that I am turning more into the person I am when I perform, then the real one I take home every night. You know how you say, I'm just going to do this ONE TIME, yup that's me. One time turned into 2 times a month, now I am a regular at the club. I LOVE IT! I love the club. On any given day, I am just a regular girl, that most men pass by. I cover up because I am not 100% sure about my own body. Oddly enough when I put on my "work" attire, and I walk to the stage ...... Nina Spice is fully available for you to seek all she has to offer. I'm your man's perfect stripper. I'm friendly, I give him all the attention, and even when he gets a little hands on ..... I let 'em. So he continues to come back just to see is Miss Spice is working tonight. My real life is in shambles. I hate school, I hate lying about my work, people are

Yes, I got spankings and I turned out fine. Yes I had marks when I got whipped with a switch, but I am also light skin so I bruise if I squeeze my arm to long. In the south, we spank! It's just something that is understood. I don't think it should be frowned upon, because some of ya'll should have been spanked!

Afternoon ............ I feel like SHAT! No seriously I have not been feeling well since Friday. I had to leave work on Friday and it come in waves. I was ok this weekend but I knew if I eat to much I would over do it. I lost 5 pounds though! Even though it wasn't the healthy way. Heck, I may lose 5 more if things continue to go this way. I have plans to go to the hospital sooner or later. Knowing me, it'll be later than sooner. I am just terrified of needles ya'll! I also broke my iphone and it doesn't work. I'm not at all upset about it. (: I am taking a MUCH needed break from the "social" world and focusing on me. Everyone who needs to contact me knows how, and if you don't ... well there is a contact form on here if you want to chat or have a question. Earlier this month when I lost my first 15/17 pounds, I took a social media break. It was AWESOME! I lived! I didn't live so I could post it online, or dress up so I could post the selfie

Good Morning! So this morning this guy parked pretty close to me, I back out and pull back in to make sure I have room to get out. Listen, again I am not thin, I have to get all this ass out my low riding car. So as I open my door, it taps his door. You would've thought I put a dent in the door and called his mother everything but her name. My day has already started off bad. -_-

No, seriously .. I have nothing to talk about today. The weird part is I actually sung the title in my Tina Turner voice. * starts rocking my shoulders * I have three back to back meetings in 10 minutes, so let's knock this out AIGHT! 1. Support black businesses. These are usually the first places to hire US! I hate to see people try to knock other people down because they aren't doing shit. There is clothing store in my hometown that is doing very well for themselves and people STAY trying to go at them. I've been in there a few times, but until I get this weight up off me ... ummm shawty can't wear nothing in there. But it's cute tho!!  2. STFU sometimes! GAH DAMN! Sorry, I just needed that. I swear some of you guys just talk and fuss to do so. You know how your parents use to say " shut up cause nah you just talking to hear yourself talk". Oh , so ya'll trying to say that was just my mama? Whatever ... 3. Last but not least ... if you a

I'm going to tell you RIGHT NOW ... this post is NOT what you think it is. If you have a comment back about what I'm about to say. be respectful. I am NOT in the mood today. I have a headache, these people in my work inbox are nuts and I'm hungry. So I want to talk to my ladies about keeping your gah damn hands to yourself. Let me say that I am NOT here for domestic violence AT ALL! I will not be commenting on the Ray Rice situation, point, blank, period. I will be talking about handsy ass women. I think I just made that word up ... anyways ...

Well hello there!! Before we get into today's post, which is a little long, I just wanted to say my lunch sucked ASS!!! I'm having a no meat during work hours week and this wheat pasta stir fry I made ... I know the devil sent his minion to my fridge last night and made this taste like this. I KNOW IT! YUCK! So let's just say I am ready to RUN home and JUMP into something to eat. I pray I don't get a hungry headache, although I can feel it coming. Anywho .. onward and upward shall we (: Many people ( like 3)  have been asking me about my weight journey. So I'm just going to share a little bit of what's been going on with me. While doing that I will also touch on depression, something I know about personally.

Happy Friday Lovelies!!!! So I was sitting in my bed, watching law n order: svu and checking emails. I came across an email and the title was " My Boyfriend is Gay but I still want him". This was AALLLLRREEEAADDDYYY #TEAMTEWMURCH for me but I did my best to answer.

Dear White Lady at my job, I'm MORE than positive you have seen big butts before but for some odd reason, you have an issue with mines. I do not wear tight clothes because, I'm a thick girl .. my everything needs to breath; but my dresses do rise in the back as I walk. I cannot help that it does that. You should really take this up with my parents or God because I didn't create me. I just want to tell a few things for you so this awkward stare at my ass, face pinched up, situation can move along. Yes I do see you making faces when I walk by, and even discussion my butt with others, which is WEIRD!

I am SO glad I prerecorded these videos because end of the month is here at work and I'm DROWNING. Anywho ... Check out the reader letters for this week. Letter #1 : Nosey Roomate wants to break up his roommates relationship so he can date the girl. Letter #2 : The girlfriend doesn't like the boyfriends daughter, but doesn't have a legit reason on why. CCCCCCCHHHHHHIIIIIIIIIILLLLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEE .... Also check out my VMA Review ... Until next time .... If  you know that 2+2=4, why can't you figure out that my business DOES NOT include YOU ...

It has been a MINUTE since I've done a randomness post. I have video's for later this week, so I thought why not throw in some random shizniyee today. (: 1. I got a new car and I SWEAR it's a thot magnet. If you don't know what a thot is, it stand for "that hoe over there". Now I use it when I'm describing an over aggressive whore. So back to the story, I have a white challenger and every time I ride pass aggressive whores they switch a little harder, flick their hair to the other side of their heads, and try to look into the car with their "dreamy" eyes. I really wanna give them the middle finger but I just give them the -_- instead. 2. Why do females get on social media and act a dang fool after a break up? Like, why were you still dating this person if you had that much shit to say about them? I don't get it. Did he instantly turn into a "ain't shit, ain't never gone be shit, ain't never had shit" man as soon as

Dear Mr. Guy .... So, yes we have the same car, different colors; I can see this too. You Say : you should give me your number ...  I mean how do you explain me, a white guy in a black challenger ... and you, a bombshell black woman in a white challenger ...

Dear Shanice, I know that you stated that you are a natural girl. I have been natural for about 2 years now and this guy I have been seeing hates it. When we first met I wore weaves and braids because I wanted to protect my hair so it would grow healthy. I told him before we got serious that I was natural and showed him a photo of me without my weave. He had no problem. Now that my hair is longer, I don't wear weaves much or braids. He always hints at other girls weaves, asking me if he bought it would I wear it, even schedule an appointment for me to get some installed. I'm to the point where I cannot deal with it anymore. I expressed my feeling to him about it and he hasn't said much about it since but I can tell how he looks at me when I'm ready to go out that he doesn't like it. Any advice on this matter? - Vicki Hey Vicki girl! Well I say just get a weave and call it a day. NOT! Listen, my hunny doesn't care if I am natural or relaxed, as long as i

WHEW! Miss me? Last week was too much for me and I needed to step away. I won't go into detail about it here but just know I am upset! ONWARD AND UPWARDS SHALL WE!! Time for an Ask Shanice Week! Bring some humor back to the blog and get so of you'll together(and me caught up) with these emails. Caught it below : Dear Shanice, I enjoy your blog and hope that you can help me. (Don't they all chile .. )  I started dating a married man about 8 months ago. He told me he was unhappy with his married life, but wasn't sure if he wanted to leave his wife. I went into this as a side chick, I guess you could say. ( No girl, I'm gone say )  After seeing him for a few months he told me he would leave his wife for me and wanted to start a family soon. I was so excited because I had grown to love this man with everything I had. I move closer to his side of town, so that I could see him more, and he slowly started moving things in. I stop taking my birth control, and soon b

On Saturday a 17 year old black teenage was gunned down in his grandmothers apartment complex. Google to read up on the story because I don't have the energy to lay it all out for you guys. I do want to say s/o to everyone on Twitter this Saturday for tweeting about it. This did not hit national news until Sunday, and even some outlets today. I recorded this video yesterday. I will be recording another video today with two of my sisters. I'm tired you'll. I'm so tired of these stories. I know they won't end anytime soon, but it doesn't hurt any less. This morning on my way to work, I cried as a I listened to Mike Brown's mother talk about her son. The pain, you can hear every emotion she has in her voice. No, I don't know this young man, but he is still apart of my culture. Again, I"m drained right now and a lot of things I have to say will be in the next video. Praying for comfort for the Brown Family and also my FB Family who lost their son

So even though today is Vlog Thursday, I didn't make one :( MEH! I gotta get a new schedule. Anywo ... Here's an OOOOLLLLDDD Post from November of last year. Enjoy! Dear Jesus be a hair bow, I am ssssooooo tired of going out and seeing these children's heads looking like Helen Keller did their heads, while your swing your 20 inch beach blond body wave. I don't understand how you can come out of your house and your baby look like she played in a sand storm and you smiling at every man you see. GIRL WHET? When people know that you have children, they don't care what you look like if your child walking around with Albert Einstein sides. Is it so hard to do hair,and put your kids on clean clothes? OH MY SWEET SUGARY BROWN don't let me get on why your baby has a snort mustache going on!!!! I just need you parents to do better. Like a whole lot better. Like a thousand times a thousand times 6 more damn thousand better. So girl in the QT line, getting ready t

Dear women, Why is it that we will drop our BEST girlfriend over something petty but let the same man run in and out of our lives? I just DO NOT understand that. I see it all the time on FaceBook. " look at us haters, we still pushing" But girl why are you still pushing? He had 3 whole children on your and you still "riding" for him. SMH. You'll give me a headache.

Listen, I had a completely didn't post for today, unkay! My mom called me still sick, doctors unknown of why her throat has been hurting for days and I have these two ladies in my inbox giving me a f'n headache.I'm an only child so when something is wrong with my mother it throws me into a mood. A "leave me the fack alone until my mother is better " mood. You know something like " I will curse each and every last person out in this place " in Jesus name, amen type of mood. Anywho this post is to you old bats in my inbox talking WRECK LESS!

Dear Threesome gone wrong, So let me just get this straight : - Your Boyfriend wanted to have a threesome -You agreed if you could pick the girl -You find the girl , do the deed, and that's that -You and the girl start messing around -Your boyfriend says he doesn't like the girl and tells you to stop hanging out with her -The girl is find being the side chick (smh) -She posted a picture of your ass on IG and some how your boyfriend knew it was yours Now all hell is breaking looooossssseeeee ... Listen here lady lover, I have no advice for you. Tell the truth and shame the devil girl! Who are you trying to be with? I'm so over you bi-curious people. If you want your boyfriend then leave Tinker Bell ass alone! Clearly she is just being messy. There are a thousand other women out here she can play with. Wait I didn't mean it like that. Never mind ... let's just keep going forward umkay. You just need to make up your mind who you want. If you really want h

EEEEEKKKKKK 100 Days Of Fitness Starts on Monday!!!! Keep me in your PRAYERS!!!! http://www.pinterest.com/shuntelb/100-days-of-fitness/ Have a great weekend!!!!

I promise I am alive!! It's the end of the month and I work in transportation. Ch ........ I forgot to blog for the week on Sunday so FORGIVE ME!!!! Thanks for all the emails checking up on me. It's weird but I'm thankful! I have three new people that I'm trying to swing into this blog ...

Happy Monday Gems and Gents! I am home from work today dealing with the pre-pms pains. This is the only time I wish I was a guy. Oh, and when I have to pee really bad and have no where to go. Yeah. That's it. Anywho Onward and Upward shall we .........................

Yup, I'm done. I am on team #rideandlive umkay! Live for Jesus! He died for all of us, so that we could live .... so I don't see the point in me,myself, having to "ride and/or die".

So many people have been asking me " WHERE ARE D'S UPDATE!!!" Well, sit down sit there and let me tell you a story. Once upon a time, there was a man who didn't consider himself bisexual, but liked men. Then one day along came Mellow Yellow! Oh this was a feisty queen,who always got what he wanted.

I'm just having a real shat day, so I'm taking a personal blog day to talk about me. Ya'll don't mind do you? First let me say Happy Birthday to an original MEM reader  : my cousin Tonya! I hope you have a blessed day! Even if you don't get everything you want today, thank God you were alive to see it. Check out her guest appearance on my post a while back here . You know what I'm tired of ? I am tired of people only "checking up on me" when they need something.

Dear MEM,  I don't live in this area anymore but the one day I decide to head to Publix's, I see you. I didn't know whether to stop and catch up or just go about my business. So me being me ..... I just keep it trucking down the aisle. BUT you being you stopped me and here we are. Let's go ahead and play catch up!  1. Your fiance wants to go to marriage counselling to see if you guys will work. I think that's a great idea! I'm not sure why you are so upset about it. Don't you want to know her different takes on situations? I know I would. I think she is just being cautious since you guys JUST MET; "technically"   2. Your moms are fighting!!! This is horrid, since they are the ones that hooked you guys up! You need to sit down with them both and explain your relationship. On one side, stop telling your mom everything that's going on in your relationship. Of course she's going to say something to your fiance's mom, THEY'RE

Happy Friday love bugs!!! We have made it to Friday! I was up until 1249; fixing things up in my house. Am I sleepy? Why yes I am! That's neither here nor there .... on and upwards!!!

I am ANAL today. Like if your not my mama, the hunny,Keisha, a SELECT group of people at work (Deb, Kristine, or Lauren) I do not want to talk to you. Don't stop by my desk, don't text me phone. This week I have been waking up dead on my feet. One night I went to bed at 10 and when I got up at 6 I was EVIL. All week at work I have been fighting to keep my eyes open,and I have plenty of work to do. I pray to God that no one sends me a rude email today, because I will NOT be nice back. Enough of me .. check out the last video for Ask Shanice and Friends ... Its short so no excuses!!!! Can men and women be JUST friends? And the debate begins .......

* uuuhhh do the humpty hump ha do the humpty hump * On Today's episode of "Ask Shanice and Friends" , a young lady would like to know how to move past friendships. Her best friend got pregnant by her very recent ex boyfriend. How can my ex boyfriend be my best friend boooyyyyffffrrrriiieeennnndddddd? * in my Sevyn Streeter Voice*

Missed Part 1? Look! You've made it to Tuesday!! Let's clap it up for that. ( insert emoji claps ) I've gotten through Monday and no one has died or been cursed out. Look at how amazing God is!! Umkay? UMKAY! Below I have my friends answer a letter from a guy with low self esteem. Brief summary : He's seeing a girl who is always asking him for money. He still lives with his parents trying to move out and she only dates "bosses" .... My advice is kick her ass to the curb. If you are a grown a$$ woman and you cannot afford your bills... hunny you don't need to be dating ANYONE! The second question is from a gentlemen as well. He wants to know what to do about his girlfriend who sells drugs. -_- He has asked her to quit before and she told him " a real man would be getting this money with me." Sir, send me your photo. I have single friends and single followers that would LOVE to give you a shot. Ain't nobody got the time to be f'n wit

So every month I'm going to launch into answering emails. I get enough emails where I'm about 1.5 months behind. SMH. Shame on me, I know! Some will be in video form and others will just be blame ol' blog posts. This week I have a few of my good friends and siblings answering your letters!!! Today the question is : When do you know when to leave in a long term relationship? Check it out and let me know what you thought! Follow them on IG : @iblowkisses12  @1ndonlyaneisha @dreamsnsuccess  @yoboytez_4 @beautiful_anjail   @ishab00     @pics_n_shit     @icu_lookin4k Also Be Sure to Check out @icu_lookin4k new single #whyyoumad 

I FINALLY HAVE INTERNET!!!! Ok, that had nothing to do with this post but whatever; cheer with me umkay! This week was TomBoy Edition! Idialia LLLLOOOOVVVEEEEE rocking her tomboy style, while I'm somewhere floating in between is this to girly and looking like a stud.

What I'm not understanding is why you people , as in people that drive and talk on the phone, think that you can fully operate your cars. Now I am sitting behind your keke'n (laughing ) ass trying to turn and you have missed 2340872394871398 opportunities to turn!!! See the point in cutting across the gas station, is to short the time you have to sit at the light. Thank to you miss single mom with a daughter, cat, and dog; I have waited the entire length of the light! Then I had to blow my horn at you to go! Like come on ..... FACKING GO!!!!! As we are approaching the next light, you proceed to get off the phone and start adding makeup to your face. I just can't ................ I FN CAN NOT!!! So again, the light changes and I have to blow my horn at you. And let me tell you one damn thing, that little ass bird you keep throwing up at me is going to get your ass beat early this Wednesday morning umkay! You better Go Go Power Ranger and morf your ass on through these lights

Busy Day at work ... no time to blog like I would like .... you can thank punk a$$ Comcast for that ... But have you seen these? Subscribe!!!

I had a long weekend. Sleep was NOT anywhere to be found. Yes, not anywhere. I don't want to see another paint brush, Swiffer sheet, dish rag, or human in my house for AT LEAST 2 weeks. Now don't get me wrong, I'm glad my home is put together and that my family/friends came down for the holiday. IT WAS JUST A LOT! So today, I'm annoyed. Wanna know why, well I'll tell you boo! Your so sweet for asking.

Welcome to We Rock It Fridays!! I've been asked to feature some sort of fashion on here and I was clueless. I took this idea from The Baby Shopa and put my own spin. Meet idalia ! She is sweet as southern tea and if the founder of We Rock Heels. My partner in crime on these Friday link Ups.  4th of July!! Summer summer summertime! Independence Day for the round the way girl is cute and comfortable. We'll rock a little red, white, and blue pride. Keep it girlie with the flowers but we're keeping it comfy with the red converse kicks! Have a drink and enjoy your independence! Today I am super laid back. I'm finally moved in and having a BBQ today. I really only put these shoes on for you'll. lol.  Show us your Fourth of July outfits!  Blogging from my phone so sorry there's no links. I'll repost tomorrow after the internet is installed .... 

So listen ... I love you'll so much. I have not posted since Monday and I have over 300 reads from people checking back in for the daily post. You guys are AWESOME! This blog is a little ol'thing and I appreciate everyone of you. Back to business!

Dear Crazy lady,  Because girl you look a dang fool! So clearly you don't like to touch anything outside your car, plus your car. SMH. So you proceed to get out of your car, and pay at the pump. You slide the card in the machine, and uses the card as your fingers to hit the keys. You then put the card BACK in your wallet. I mean ..... so technically the germs are in your wallet now. Then you walk around trying to find paper towels to pump your gas with. You take the nozzle off with the napkin, grab the pump, start pumping THENNNNNN you close your hands over the "germ" napkins. Am I the only person that noticed you are now touching the part of the napkin you were using to protect yourself? Your weird, and you look crazy as hell. Just stop! Why not get some GermX and keep it pushing? OR go in the dang store and wash your hands ding bat!  Meanwhile you find it ok to dig in your ass to get those draws out ... but that ain't none of my business  xoxo Girl People Wat

Dear Shanice, I am a 22 year old woman, dating a 26 year old man. We have been dating for about 8 months and I can honestly say I am in love. Since school is out he took his kids on a mini summer vacation. He told me he wanted me to meet his kids. Now I knew he had kids but I didn't know how many. I never asked about them because honestly that's not my business. To make a long story short, he picked me up in a SUV and there were 5 kids inside. I died inside. 5 KIDS!!! I couldn't believe it. He was just smiling like this was normal. The weekend was very eventful, loud,messy,but entertaining to say the least. When I got home, I flipped out. I don't mind dating a man with kids, but 5 kids is a bit much for me. Do you think I'm wrong for wanting to leave him because of his children? PS I loved Take That Bitch To Trial Letter Thanks, Lisa Dear Lisa, RRUUUNNNN BBBBIIIIHHHHH!!!

Are the kind words that were whispered in the club on Saturday. Hey Ya'll!!! Miss me? If you haven't noticed Mondays are now "D's" post days. But he pissed me off, then I pissed him off; so now we are having a time out. I'll tell you all about it on Vlog Thursday! My nerves to damn bad right now, and since I am living the healthy life {insert side eye} I don't have any juice to go with my 1800 coconut so whatever. 1.This is my last week in my apartment and I'm still homeless like shit. I'm going to do a Vlog about trying to rent while black. SMH. Listen, this shat is so fn difficult. I'm over it. Like OVER IT!!!! 2.I'm not ready for Summer. I'm not talking about my weight, I'm talking about this HEAT!! OMGOSH you'll it was 97 degree's yesterday and I had a NASTY attitude. I can't deal with heat. I know, I know, Shanice, you live in the south. Yes, you are correct but girl ... show me someone that likes above 90

1. Yhu and belve are not words. 2. Leave your std results in your purse, not my timeline, 3. E Gangsters are not hot anymore. 4. Can you praise God on any other day then Sunday on my timeline? 5. Your an adult. I'm not praising you for paying bills.

I love when people send me random rants! Check out with my lovely cousin has to say! Can't wait until she drops!!! Ok. I know you save your blog stuff for your email but I woke up from a nap and I wanted  to have a prego rant (wrong  place wrong time). Over the past week everytime that I come in contact with a pastor they bring up the subject of weed. Usually its after they find out that I am a legal drug dealer. Over the past few years I have notice that an on going trend has been taking prescription medication for fun. When I started attending a predominantly white University I ran into a lot of people that would take prescription medication to stay awake for test. It was so normal to them. A little over a year ago I noticed that many people that I know were taking roxys. The term Roxy sounded really cool to me until I googled what they really were. I watched a girl that I was close to go from swallowing Roxys to sniffing them. Im so glad that I hate even taking tabs af

So this week, I have one of my best friends Aneesah. I met her in 9th grade, when she told me my love liked me. I thought she was crazy, and I was right, but she is sweet as pie. LOL That's so country. She is very to the point. There is no second guessing what she is saying because trust me, you'll understand the first time she says it. I love her tons, and can't wait for you guys to read her advice. This readers letter is a little long but I PROMISE you'll be like WTFACK when you finish. Check out her advice below :

Dear D, You make my balls hurt and I don't even have any. Every time I get an email from you, I have to take a deep breath, take about 20 steps, come back to my computer and go from there. Here's my little advice for you, or whatever. Lamount : It's a setup. Let it go. Stop being around him. Clearly he is a REAL down-low man, and you already know how I feel about them. I can applaud you on not being like him in that way, but that's about all I can give you a round of applause on. And how could you let him almost ... I mean you just finished peeing .. ok I can't .. my stomach is starting to hurt. Nasty ass .... Mellow Yellow : He is going to push you out of this corner, because I'm not sure if it's a closet, one way or another. I'm not sure where you took the wrong turn with him, but he is UPSET. Only thing worst than an upset queen, is a person with all their groceries in their cart and their EBT card has $0. Gotta take all that shat back. That'

I just want to wish my step dad a happy Father's Day. Although I didn't like him much in the beginning, he's a pretty awesome guy. Now my mom was very much the single parent. I went where she went and she never left me house with my step dad alone until I was up in age. I really can't remember my mom ever asking him to buy anything for me but he did anyways. Ooh we had some adventures that him and I crack up about. My mom is still pretty pissed about one but it's one of my favorite memories. Lol! Sorry ma! He taught me how to drive and got me out of MANY whoppings. He was the only one to go to the deep part of the ocean with me and gave me a stern talking to when I left college. Although we don't share the same DNA I will move mountains if someone wrongs him. And I'm pretty sure I get on his nerves, but I'm his only daughter ... That's what I'm suppose to do!!! So happy Father's Day!!!! See you soon!! I love you.