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Dear Women, Do Better!



Dear women,

Why is it that we will drop our BEST girlfriend over something petty but let the same man run in and out of our lives? I just DO NOT understand that. I see it all the time on FaceBook. " look at us haters, we still pushing" But girl why are you still pushing? He had 3 whole children on your and you still "riding" for him. SMH. You'll give me a headache.
How you trying to give relationship quotes on FB and you don't even know where your man is? BETTER YET you know where he is but all you care about is " who he come home to". Chile ...... Let me be the one to tell you. That BOY you letting play with your emotions, is just that ... A BOY.  I know plenty of real, faithful men; that would NEVER do an ounce of what you'll put up with. I'll be DAMNED if I have to argue with an ex. GIRL WHET? Ain't you the ex? So why art thou even talking to me? A girl is not going to keep coming for your neck over a man UNLESS he is still giving her a reason. HELLO. GOODBYE. GIVE THAT WISDOM I JUST DROPPED!

AANNNNDDD ANOTHER THING!

This week my timeline on FaceBook has been full of drama. Now I don't follow these people, but you know how FaceBook like to snitch on a mofo. "Your friend Raysean Istayreadysoineverhavetogetready Jones liked Reneisha thesehoesstayhatingwhileistaygettingmoney Thomas status" . It seems that the drama has been mostly between women. We are the ones that like like to argue and fight each other over men who are laughing at both parties. At the end of the day, he winning! Both of you are making him seem like something to fight over when honestly, he messed over you both. Just f'n do better. You'll have children! There are way more important things to do then be worried about who laid up in someone else's bed, and what they doing with their money. Girl, what does that matter? If she selling her golden nugget, pray for guidance over her. If she sleeping around, that's HER BUSINESS! If she sleeping with your man, throw his ass to curb and move on. Thank God for letting you see he isn't the one for you, and keep it pushing. At the end of the day, their lives aren't effecting yours. Oh my bad, I forgot you'll stay so #unbothered but yet still talking about it. Oh, Ok.

Remember this : No one will know your business if you kept it to yourself.

xoxoxo
Too Old To Knuck If I'm Buck .. but don't try me
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