Take That Shh To Trial Bish - Reader Letter

So this week, I have one of my best friends Aneesah. I met her in 9th grade, when she told me my love liked me. I thought she was crazy, and I was right, but she is sweet as pie. LOL That's so country. She is very to the point. There is no second guessing what she is saying because trust me, you'll understand the first time she says it. I love her tons, and can't wait for you guys to read her advice. This readers letter is a little long but I PROMISE you'll be like WTFACK when you finish. Check out her advice below :

Dear Shanice, I have baby daddy, baby mama drama. My boyfriend of 3 years, baby mother is crazy! She is always calling at odd hours, asking for very large amounts of money, and being messy on facebook. Everytime she wants something and he doesn't give it to her, she cries "i'm about to put you on papers." My boyfriend has a great job and takes care of both of our kids. Everything he buys for our daugher, he buys for their daughter. We go school shopping and he tries to get her every two weekends and the weekends he doesn't get her, he tries to see her during the week. I am not allowed to go over the baby mothers house and he cannot pick his daughter up when I'm in the car. I think all of this is ridiculous! When I met him he was single, so I never "took" him for her. Just an example of the type of things she ask for. She told us she needed $500 to take their daughter to a doctors appointment, because they don't have insurance. Mind you the child is on my boyfriends insurance!!! She posted a messy status about my boyfriend on facebook, as well as me, saying how he could take me out and buy me things but can't pay for his daughters doctors appointment. Her daughter is 6 and repeats to us everything her mother says and now she feels bad about me. I have loved this little girl every since I met her. She even told my boyfriend, mom said you like the new baby better than me, thats why I don't see you as much. Which is a bold face lie. She will not let us get the child, if she mad at him. We planned a valentine's day for the girls and because he didn't get the mother a gift, the daughter couldn't come with us. I have never dealt with baby mama drama and I honestly don't want to go to jail. Please tell me what I should do. My boyfriend gives her about $600 a month and I think for all he does thats too much. I want him to go put himself on child support so he doesn't have to be afraid of "the people". thanks, Stacie

Take that ish to trial bish...

 Sooo my reply is to the girl who is suffering from my man’s baby momma is a crazy ass hoe syndrome. Now this is a terrible terrible disease to have to deal with but what can you do???? Nothing. That’s right..you can’t do a damn thing. Your man’s baby momma is waiting for you to try her so she can definitely have the upper hand over the relationship you have with “her,” man. Now now now I know you’re like....What are you talking about? Well listen chillle.. His BM still has feel ings for him. That’s why she is acting crazy, keeping him from his daughter whenever she can, coming up with dumb ass excuses why he can’t see his daughter or why she needs $500 for her daughter’s doctor appt...when the child of God is on your man’s insurance. She is trying to hurt him, however she can b/c she’s still hurt for whatever reason (I’m not sure but don’t ask her ) or she’s just crazy... Not letting go of the past so instead, like a dumb hoe...she’s taking it out on everyone in his life...that is important to him. She is no longer important to him. By now, he probably regrets sleeping with her and getting HER out of alll the women in the world...pregnant (ask him girl, I bet he agrees...anyway) I suggest you do one thing. Tell him, to take that bish to trial (an actual song by Mr. Biggs...google it) He needs to take her to court. Get joint custody of there daughter and put himself on child support. All his BM can do is make threats b/c he hasn’t showed her he ’s not playing with her crazy ass. Once that is done, he needs to be a man and tell her to stop calling his phone at odd times at night, asking for large amounts of money, and grow up. She has a daughter to raise and needs to stop venting on FB! She’s immature and childish. She is doing all of this non sense b/c no one has put her in her place. *Sidenote: tell your man to stop trying to get his daughter every two weeks...he needs to get her as much as possible. Sorry, I had  to comment about that. 2 weeks is too long to not see his daughter...let’s work on every weekend, every other day or sumthin! He’s a grown ass man. Who told him he can’t get his daughter when you’re in the car? The crazy BM? If that’s so, this is why he needs to go to court. Question, are you sure he is not still involved with her in some way...maybe to stay on her good side?? B/c why would she even think she deserves a V-Day gift? Just a thought... But don’t listen to me,I could be wrong or not... One last thing, tell him “the people,” are his friends!!! They are the people he needs to visit! They are the people who will lay down the law on his crazy baby momma ass!!! If he doesn’t, he’s going to keep paying $600 a month (for a child he already takes care of), she’s going to continue bullying and controlling you and your man’s life. She is winning right now! You and your man are losing...all b/c he’s afraid of “The People,” the ppl ain’t getting&nbsp ;his ass for $600 a mth, calling when they feel like it, or telling his child lies about his new girl.

This is all dysfunctional. Talk to your man. Tell him to man up and go to the ppl! Again, They are his friends. Yours too b/c if you say anything to the BM.. Yea, it might get ugly. 

          Sincerely, the girl you need to listen to...I’m on your side. :)