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The Back Story : Demetrius

So I get emails from people asking me odd things, trying to charge me for shat, and most of the time I just trash them all. This one guy KEPT emailing me, so I decided to see what was up. Meet Demetrius. No this isn't his real name, but he told me I could rename him. LOL. I will be sharing his story and my advice .. be nice nah ... Here's our first encounter ... 

 Hi Shanice, 

 I love your blog and I am looking for some advice. Now I am no MEM, my situation is a lot different. I am a Sophomore in college. I have a loving girlfriend, but I'm bisexual. Yeah, you weren't expecting that were you. I messed around with a guy my freshman year of college, and met my now girlfriend a little after. I have not messed with any guys since the first one and I'm pretty happy.Well I was. Before you ask, no my girlfriend doesn't know about my previous encounter with the one guy. There is this guy in one of my classes, and he is very attractive. We exchange looks but I have NEVER tried to talk to him. Like I said, I am content and happy with my life. The other day he asked me was I gay, and I stated IDK. I couldn't believe I said I don't know. He gave me his number and told me when I find out let him know. I was FLOORED! I would love to get to know him more but I have my girlfriend whom I care a lot about. I feel like I'm at a crossing in my life and I honestly don't know what to do. The fear to open myself up to this ....... 

 This is Part I of the email..... GEEEESSSHHHH!!! I will post Part II tomorrow ..... Let me just say that we have been talking for about 5 days and I LOVE HIM!! He is sssoooo sweet, but he is all out of wack! 
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