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Dear Tina from Mary Mary, Divorce is the answer

Miss me? I have been in a hole. I have a love hate relationship with spending money, and I just had to break the BANK to get our truck fixed. Keep me in your prayers. Having shoe withdrawals.

I just want to talk about Tina from Mary Mary's situation. Now, I am not married and just until recently actually thought I would be ready for marriage. Seeing SSSOOO many people's marriage fail, had me in the corner like, nah bruh I'm cool just shacking up. Now don't get me wrong, I can't wait to get married, but I understand that dating and marriage are TTTOOOOOTTTAAALLLLYYYYY DIFFERENT. So again, this is just my opinion on Tina's situation and you we can agree to disagree, I'm cool with that.

Forgiveness and stupidity sometimes go hand in hand. I have seen many girls forgive their man of something but refuse to acknowledge what was did. If you don't address the issue, what does forgiven really do, other than give him the ok to do it again. With Tina's situation I feel that the war is over. She keeps trying to start the battle back up to save this marriage that's over. I can forgive you for cheating on me. IN A MARRIAGE, let me say that. In a marriage, it's gone take me a long time, but I can forgive you for cheating with ONE person. Women need to come to the understanding that, sometimes, men and women cheat for different reasons. For a man, it's just sex, or just the chase. For us, it's emotional, we are missing something, and this person we cheated with filled it. Again, I say sometimes. I feel like Tina's husband was trying to fill her spot. It didn't' work with one, so he keep hopping. < starts playing papa is a rolling stone >

What I won't do is be with your ass and you have cheated on me several times, with several women. How do you keep up with all these lies and fairy-tales? How can I EVER trust you again? Guess what? I can't! Those girls, have their own karma coming to them, but you my dear HUSBAND, are no longer my husband. Divorce would be in our future because this isn't the time to try to relive your youth! We are one, we have children, did you not think about this while you were sexing these women up. I can't give you all of me because you have torn it apart. You don't deserve any of me. I was faithful. I was away from you as long as you were away from me , and I WAS FAITHFUL!

So this is it. Thanks for being honest but we are no longer a family. You can thank yourself for that. I have a level of respect for myself that I will maintain. You didn't have that same love nor respect for me when you were bed hopping. How can you tell me you love me, while riding to chick #4 house to pipe her down. GET THE FFF OUTTA HERE!

So my question to you, readers, would you leave or stay? Lets Talk about it Facebook Friends!!


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