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Dear Family, You Kinda Suck

This is more for me than for you readers so sorry in advance. 

Every since our Grandmother passed, a while back, it's like pulling teeth to get all of you in the same house for a holiday.No one wants to host, no one wants to cook, no one wants to drive,like WTH!  I'm not sure what the hell is your issue, but I'm sick of this. I live out of state and it's hard enough on me not to see my mother when I want! BUT when I come home, I want you all in one house, eating, laughing and creating memories. YOU HAVE TWO SIDES TO YOUR FAMILY!! People get so caught up in what they are doing in their household, they tend to forget that cousins are suppose to be your first best friends, uncles are who you get the "boys" talk with and sports updates, that you aunts are always gossiping about back in the day ,that we both have the same scar on our knees because we fell off the bike together! That nobody cooks red velvet like one of your aunts, that your cousin is hilarious for no reason, that your dads/moms face lights up whenever the entire family is around each other. It seems like the only time families get together is to say Good Bye to someone. You get so caught up in all this material shat and forget about what really matters! I shouldn't have to watch your kids grow up via FB. I should be able to see your children out and them recognize my face and know we are related. Yes we get mad at each other, that happens, but we never leave each other standing alone. No one will ever help you fight a battle like family. I'm getting older and soon I'll have children. I want them to know each and every last one of you guys. I can't do that if you only visit your mom/dad side of the family every holiday. So suck it up! I don't know who your mad at, and I don't care why you are mad. You better get over it because no one knows the day nor the hour one of us will be taking our last breath. The fact that I extended an invitation and NONE of you replied has pissed me off that I don't WANT to see you. I know my grandmother is rolling over in her grave at how you all are, but I will continue to push this pitiful family together until it works! 

xoxoxox
One VERY PISSED niece/cousin 


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