Dear Shanice,
I started sleeping with my fiancee's sister about 2 months after we got engaged. We have always been cool, so it was never an issue for us to be alone with each other. She is buying a house and invited me to come along with her so she wouldn't be by herself with the Realtor. She bought a house that we both agreed on and to celebrate took me on a spa date. I cleared this with my fiancee and I headed to the hotel for my thank you spa day.
Drinks got to flowing, weed was smoked, clothes got to coming off and one thing lead to another and we had sex. It was amazing. I had never felt that good in a while. We have now have been messing around for the last 6 months. We keep saying no we will not do it again, but some how we make our way back to "wedding planning". I love my fiance. It's only a sexual thing I have on the side. I need help on how to tell him that I am sleeping with his sister, without him leaving me. This is both of our first times being with a woman. I really don't want this to ruin my relationship because other than sex, I don't have much communication with this girl. Some how she ends up at my house or us over there and shit happens. I honestly don't want to tell him but I dont want to enter our marriage with a lie.
GGGIIIIRRRRLLLLLL ... I had to read this twice because I thought you were a man hunny and I was about to read your for FILTH. Now that I know you are a woman this story is actually funny as hell. Just tell him girl. Like this " Baby, your sisters mouth game is so much better than yours. What color you said you wanted the flowers again. " BAAHAHAHAHAH ... I'm sorry that was rude. I know of a few fake lesbians and it's usually something emotional. I think maybe for her she is really gay and the alcohol just gave her the courage to DDDIIIVVVEEEEE IIINNN * trey songz voice* For you, maybe you were just overwhelmed and needed some excitement. Girl either way, just have her show him what she did to make you KEEP going back, and you should be fine. TEHEHE .. No NO thats wrong. Cheating in no way is a good thing. No one wants to be cheated on and it hurts even more when it's with someone you knew. You slept with his sister. It is not like you slept with someone he would never see again. He might be able to get over it but I don't think so. Now if it was another girl, he probably would get turned on, ask you to call her over, bang her out and say ok that's it. We are good now. At the end of the day just tell him. I don't see a wedding in your near future but I could be wrong. Next time, keep it in your pants, or on your face, or on your hands ,,, or unstrapped ..girl IDK ..just do better!!! There is a reason you stepped outside of your relationship. YOU need to figure out why that is. If you believe in signs, maybe this is one that you might not be ready for this step just yet. Clearly you have switched teams hunny and that's a lot within itself.
xoxox,
Shanice
I started sleeping with my fiancee's sister about 2 months after we got engaged. We have always been cool, so it was never an issue for us to be alone with each other. She is buying a house and invited me to come along with her so she wouldn't be by herself with the Realtor. She bought a house that we both agreed on and to celebrate took me on a spa date. I cleared this with my fiancee and I headed to the hotel for my thank you spa day.
Drinks got to flowing, weed was smoked, clothes got to coming off and one thing lead to another and we had sex. It was amazing. I had never felt that good in a while. We have now have been messing around for the last 6 months. We keep saying no we will not do it again, but some how we make our way back to "wedding planning". I love my fiance. It's only a sexual thing I have on the side. I need help on how to tell him that I am sleeping with his sister, without him leaving me. This is both of our first times being with a woman. I really don't want this to ruin my relationship because other than sex, I don't have much communication with this girl. Some how she ends up at my house or us over there and shit happens. I honestly don't want to tell him but I dont want to enter our marriage with a lie.
GGGIIIIRRRRLLLLLL ... I had to read this twice because I thought you were a man hunny and I was about to read your for FILTH. Now that I know you are a woman this story is actually funny as hell. Just tell him girl. Like this " Baby, your sisters mouth game is so much better than yours. What color you said you wanted the flowers again. " BAAHAHAHAHAH ... I'm sorry that was rude. I know of a few fake lesbians and it's usually something emotional. I think maybe for her she is really gay and the alcohol just gave her the courage to DDDIIIVVVEEEEE IIINNN * trey songz voice* For you, maybe you were just overwhelmed and needed some excitement. Girl either way, just have her show him what she did to make you KEEP going back, and you should be fine. TEHEHE .. No NO thats wrong. Cheating in no way is a good thing. No one wants to be cheated on and it hurts even more when it's with someone you knew. You slept with his sister. It is not like you slept with someone he would never see again. He might be able to get over it but I don't think so. Now if it was another girl, he probably would get turned on, ask you to call her over, bang her out and say ok that's it. We are good now. At the end of the day just tell him. I don't see a wedding in your near future but I could be wrong. Next time, keep it in your pants, or on your face, or on your hands ,,, or unstrapped ..girl IDK ..just do better!!! There is a reason you stepped outside of your relationship. YOU need to figure out why that is. If you believe in signs, maybe this is one that you might not be ready for this step just yet. Clearly you have switched teams hunny and that's a lot within itself.
xoxox,
Shanice
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