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MailBox Edition : Dear Cheated On

So, I asked you guys  to send me anything you wanted and to also follow me on IG Remember? Well this will be the section I answer you questions. Remember this is just my opinion, you may take whatever you want from it or leave it here on this page. If you agree or disagree comment below! Let's talk about it!

Hi!
I enjoy your blog and I was wondering how do you feel about cheating? I saw in one of your post MEM slept with two girls in the same month. Although they were never official, some people would say that he is kind of cheating on the first woman. What are your thoughts?

Dear Cheated On (I know you didn't say you were but I like this as a title so go with me here umkay!), 

 I have very strong feeling about cheating. If MEM ever were to cheat on his actual girl, whenever he gets one, I would open up a full STORE of whoop ass. When you are in your teen years,just being a kid, not knowing this from that, I feel like that is the ONLY time you kinda get a pass. I mean your just a kid, your living life, trying to break off as many people as possible. Yup, that was gross but whatever we all know a few of those people. As an adult, it's time to pull them breaches up, and do the right thing. It is very easy to say, " Hey girl/guy! Ummmm this isn't working. It was cute while it lasted, but I'M OUT!". As you get older, I think, cheating starts to mess with your self-esteem. You want to know why would you cheat on me! What was it about me that makes it so easy for you to be with someone else?  When that person could've been real in the first place and exited the relationship. Or worked it out. And here another damn thing, you crazy girls n FB holding these men down who YOU KNOW is cheating on you with multiple women ....... girl ...... just ..... deactivate your FB and join us in the real world. You guys just rub me the wrong way. There is someone out there JUST FOR YOU! Because that "man" your holding down is clearly for EVERYBODY! So no, I'm not here for cheating, unless it's to win the lottery and I wouldn't get caught. Don't judge me ... I'm just being honest. 

 xoxox

The Non-Creditable Counselor 
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