I'm fresh into my marriage. Will be two years this year, but I have been with my now husband for 14 years. Lawd, that makes me feel old.
Now I enjoy being married. LLLOOVVEEEE IT! But ummmmmrraaaahhhuuuhhhhh, let's talk about married people advice.
I'm not saying "all married people" but I've notice that married people LLOOVVEEE to give you the "I'm up here and your down there" advice. Or they give you the "right, holy" answer. Like bih I'll still give you a two piece! Tell me that I need to leave Jaquan ass alone because he only act right in the winter. Tell me what you would've told me 6 months ago before you got married. I am WORTH MORE! Don't hit me with a bible verse, don't hit me with an I'll pray for you, don't try to tell me this is in God's plan, don't tell me how to keep a man, or why my man ain't acting right... again YOU JUST GOT MARRIED LESS THAN 5 YEARS AGO!
I know ya'll thinking, but girl you give advice right here! Umhm I do, but I ain't never switched up. Married Shanice and Single Shanice gone give you the same advice. I'm gone tell you look girl, Jaquan gone do what Jaquan wanna do. Now you can leave or you can stay, but YOU have to live with that decision. I give tons of advice, but it's just that ADVICE! And I try not to stick my nose where it doesn't belong.
Now married people don't yall get mad at me and try to beat me up. Cause I got some pressure built up and I'll more than likely knock yo ass out umkay BBUUTT we need to STOP with the "I'm married listen to me advice" and just give out some real shit. Hell when you get married, you still have issues. Still argue over where ya'll gone eat at, what movie ya'll wanna watch on Netflix, who ain't washed this dishes this week .. ya know petty shit. LMAO!
This probably didn't make much since, but I just want ya'll to remember .... any advice ... is just that .. ADVICE. Cause some married people just faking it until them kids get grown and THEIR OUT OF THERE! Have you out here single.
Now I enjoy being married. LLLOOVVEEEE IT! But ummmmmrraaaahhhuuuhhhhh, let's talk about married people advice.
I'm not saying "all married people" but I've notice that married people LLOOVVEEE to give you the "I'm up here and your down there" advice. Or they give you the "right, holy" answer. Like bih I'll still give you a two piece! Tell me that I need to leave Jaquan ass alone because he only act right in the winter. Tell me what you would've told me 6 months ago before you got married. I am WORTH MORE! Don't hit me with a bible verse, don't hit me with an I'll pray for you, don't try to tell me this is in God's plan, don't tell me how to keep a man, or why my man ain't acting right... again YOU JUST GOT MARRIED LESS THAN 5 YEARS AGO!
I know ya'll thinking, but girl you give advice right here! Umhm I do, but I ain't never switched up. Married Shanice and Single Shanice gone give you the same advice. I'm gone tell you look girl, Jaquan gone do what Jaquan wanna do. Now you can leave or you can stay, but YOU have to live with that decision. I give tons of advice, but it's just that ADVICE! And I try not to stick my nose where it doesn't belong.
Now married people don't yall get mad at me and try to beat me up. Cause I got some pressure built up and I'll more than likely knock yo ass out umkay BBUUTT we need to STOP with the "I'm married listen to me advice" and just give out some real shit. Hell when you get married, you still have issues. Still argue over where ya'll gone eat at, what movie ya'll wanna watch on Netflix, who ain't washed this dishes this week .. ya know petty shit. LMAO!
This probably didn't make much since, but I just want ya'll to remember .... any advice ... is just that .. ADVICE. Cause some married people just faking it until them kids get grown and THEIR OUT OF THERE! Have you out here single.
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