#MCM Cheating Girlfriend

Dear Danny,

Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years. We went through a few months where we were not on the same page. She was wanting me to move in with her and I wasn't ready to take that step. A few weeks ago I saw this guy run up on her and give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I played it cool and just ask her who it was but I was pretty heated inside. She told me he was just a friend from a previous job. She has been getting really distant and on her phone more since after she saw ol' dude. We been arguing for no reason and when her phone rings she goes out the room to talk on it. I ended up going through her phone and read a message from him saying he wanted to pick up where they left off a few months back. ( Basically the time we were going through out little thing ) They were talking about their future together, like I didn't exist.She text him to come over a few times late at night and I'm pretty sure they fucked.
I want to confront her about this but I don't want her to know I went through her phone. My lease is about to be up and I was going to surprise her with renting a townhouse for the both of us but I'm not sure now. I feel like I should just hang up the towel on this but I know I have done some shit when we first got together myself but she doesn't know about that.

Thanks, Leon


First Leon, thank you for writing in. You are now tuned in to the Danny show. Second, your excuse for " I did some shit in the beginning that she don't know " is not a good excuse. The reason ya'll are still together is because she doesn't know the shit you did. So that whole point is null and void; it doesn't even exist. Now what I'm about to say to you might not come as a shocker, but Cuh Larry ... it's over. I hate to be so to the point but I have to. I want you to be able to look yourself in the mirror and say " you know what .. he is right .. it's over. " Let me get this straight : She let another man run up on her, while she was with her man, give her a hug ( and I'm pretty sure it wasn't a church hug) and a kiss on the cheek? And she didn't put her put her hands up and AAAAAHHHHHTTTTTT his ass, so that she could stop him and introduce you as her man? Side Bar : Why the fuck didn't you say something to him Leon. That means she was just as excited to see him and he was to see her. Nah, ya'll arguing a lot out of no where and she leaves out the room to talk on her phone .... 1. She arguing because she sick of yo ass and she got Morris Chestnut on the brain. Now he might not looked like Morris Chestnut but in her eyes she is treating him like Sir Morris. Ya Feel Me? 2. People only leave the room for two reasons : 1. it's too loud and they can't hear. Which is obliviously not the case here. 2. They are about to say some shit they don't want anybody to hear. Now let me ask you this, what does the girl that wants to move in with someone have to say that they can't hear? Ponder on that for a second Leon. Even if she ain't talking to his ass, she holding secrets; which means you have another problem. Now back to Parking Lot Romeo.

Aww Leon, Leon, Leon ...First cardinal mistake you made was going to look for trouble; because you always find it. Now you found what you were looking for. For future references, never do that shit again .. and never let your NEXT GIRL get your phone. Trust is something that has to be built and earned not snooped through. Now back to what I have to say about her ass. From this point on Leon, I'm going to refer to your girl as THIS BITCH. Now I don't know if you are going to get upset about this but you asked me my opinion. I'm not trying to be mean but if you could call me on the phone right now I would do like the old folks say and dawg her ass right now. Side note : what the fuck is a chess cat?  She's texting an old flame and they are talking about their future together, meaning she hasn't said anything about her man ( you ) . Which means she not thinking about yo ass .. low down dirty bitch. Meaning she is already planning to cancel yo ass like the Mindy Project. She about to cancel you like Ray Rice contact. She about to cancel you like the "This Is It " concert after Michael Jackson died. RIP Mike. King of P.O.P Hol'It Down! This bitch done invited a mutha fucka over to her crib, where you sleep over from time to time. We are just all going to assume he got some nookie, and then you probably showed up the next day .. laying in her bed. Laying on them sheet, because we know she didn't washed them sheet because you showed up to fast.  I know she didn't wash em .. that's hoe shit and right now she acting like a hoe. She having an on going relationship with him, while she is with you, smiling all in your face and shit, taking her out to eat and shit, going to see Avengers Age of Ultron and shit .... I was about to go off on her ass but Ima stop. Let that bitch go. Ain't no Christmah Bih ...

Never tell her you went through her phone. I'm going to give you a little physiology : by you telling her you went through her phone; at some point in her mind she is going to realize you where chasing fears. That will let her know she had the upper hand, and WE can't let that bitch know she had the upper hand Leon.


- Danny