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He Said He Doesn't, But I think He does

This photo has nothing to do with my topic but i just think it's so funny ... lmao!!!!!

If someone tells you that they are not ready for a relationship BELIEVE THEM!! It doesn't matter how they are treating you, if they have sat right in your face and said " hey I'm not looking to settle down yet. "
See the thing is we start to treat whoever this person is as like our boy/girlfriend. Cooking and cleaning, dropping lunch off at they job, gassing up their car, dropping a few dollars to get their nails done and so forth. STOP DOING THAT STUPID SHIT! Because every time I see/hear someone say " I mean yeah (s)he said that they not ready but look at how they acting " I just want to wind mill they ass. Of course they are receipted of your kind gifts. Hell a baller still like to drink on another ballers dime at times too .... I wouldn't turn down anything if you gone offer it to me because I have already been very clear with you that I am not trying to settle down. You are just the nit wit that is doing all this extra shit to prove to someone that you are worth it. STOP IT!

Then when they find someone else and Facebook tells you they are in a relationship it's " YOU SHOULD'VE KEPT IT 100 WITH ME". Uuuummmm yeah I did. Remember the whole " I'm not looking to settle down yet" thing I told you 6 months ago? That was really just a YOUR NOT WORKING OUT BIH! When someone tells you that, move on. I need people to realize that you cannot turn your emotions off to just be someone's friend after you wanted to be so much more. You start trying to prove yourself worthy of them when you shouldn't have to. That person just isn't the person for you. Go and prove yourself to someone who wants to actually be with you, not someone that is stringing you along until they get all they can get.

Your worth so much more than a fuck ass " I'm not ready to be in a relationship but can you help with my car note. I'm a little behind " .

xoxox

Fattie Girl
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