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The Day I Was Called FAT - and laughed

I debated on writing this post ... and said why not! I haven't posted in a while and honestly the altercation bothered me a day later.  Come on in and let's talk!



So my little brother and I went to Chillis to grab a drink and some wings. Here in Decatur,Al they have 60 cent wings. Pair that with $2 margarita and bbbaaayyybbeeeee we were having a time! So in front of me sat three people ( Hope, Megan, and Josh *waves* ) that I went to high school with. As my brother and I are enjoying our company we can CLEAR AS DAY here them talking shit about a lot of my class mates. I roll my eyes and text my home girls like I really hope they don't say anything about you guys because I'm going to come undone in here. One thing I do not play about are my super loyal ass friends. In my mind I was already going to contact the people they were talking about and let them know .. AYE BRUH watch your back and your business around these three. Now some may say that is messy but I don't think so. If you know of someone that I deal with, trashing my kids, my marriage,etc .. let me know because I need to cut these people off. I can defend you to people and let you know to stop dealing with these fools in the same breath.


So a good 45 seconds before my names comes up in the conversation my brother says ...... and I quote .... they gone start talking about your wedding ..... and I say ..... I hope not ... and I'll be DAMNED if they didn't start talking about me and my weight gain. My brother flips his shit lol .. thinking back on it, it was very funny but my only thought was to calm him down and get the hell out of Chillis because they hadth not known the ass whooping that was coming.

Now that the story is out the way let me get to what I want to say. You still reading? HEY BOO!!! At this age, because we are all around the same age, who goes out to dinner to literally do a roll call down their Facebook friends list and talk about EVERY SINGLE PERSON. Do you not have things going on in your life that you would like to share with the people you are eating with? When my friends and I have dinner/lunch/drinks/workout sessions ( cause you know I'm plus size )... we talk about our next step in life. We talk about what is the goal we are trying to achieve at the moment. See I'm over the she got so big shit. Look ....
Yes I gained hella weight .. and as I'm typing this .. those pants in my progression photo don't even fit anymore. YYYAAASSSSS GIRL WERK!! So sitting around talking about my weight isn't doing you any good. Although you did motivate me more to SHIT on your life. I already own a booming ass business, marrying the man of my dreams, and building a life that I have so much positive shit going on that I go to dinner to RELAX with family and enjoy talking about the good times. 

This is why I don't like people. Because everyone they sat at that table and dogged out - they were social media friends with, probably liked some of their photos ... just to be nosy and talk cash shit about these people. BUT IS YOU GONE BUST A GRAPE IN A WINE FACTORY? HELL NO! So take your hot pocket head ass on somewhere. Go live and enjoy your life, doing whatever makes you happy. I hate coming to Decatur,Al dealing with stupid shit like this. I would respect you more if you would've just said yeah we said it .. but instead you want to act all coy .... then sir gentleman wants to buck up in the chest with my little brother ... but you are the one in the wrong!!!!!!! I say little brother ya'll but he is a smooth 6ft 270 ... so trust me .... he was gonna lay him OUT!


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