Dear Danny, Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years. We went through a few months where we were not on the same page. She was wanting me to move in with her and I wasn't ready to take that step. A few weeks ago I saw this guy run up on her and give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I played it cool and just ask her who it was but I was pretty heated inside. She told me he was just a friend from a previous job. She has been getting really distant and on her phone more since after she saw ol' dude. We been arguing for no reason and when her phone rings she goes out the room to talk on it. I ended up going through her phone and read a message from him saying he wanted to pick up where they left off a few months back. ( Basically the time we were going through out little thing ) They were talking about their future together, like I didn't exist.She text him to come over a few times late at night and I'm pretty sure they fucked.