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Dear MEM - I Never Wanted To Be A Single Mom

Dear Shanice, First congratulation on your marriage and baby. My name is Breneesha and I am currently pregnant. My baby daddy and I did not plan on getting pregnant and it seems like as soon as I took the test our relationship went to shit. We were living together but he has basically moved out. We have never talked about having kids but we have been together a little over a year. I might see him once a week, and when I ask him where he is going or staying he literally ignores me and leaves. Last week I packed up all of his clothes and told him that he could leave for good and not come back. He is listed on the lease and still pays half the bills. He told me he wasn't going anywhere and once the baby was born he would be back staying full time. Full time? What does that mean? I told him I have basically went through this pregnancy alone and I am fine being a single mom. I have made my mind up that I am going to move into a one bedroom and live alone. I don't know what he is

Then I Had Got Pregnant ...

Listen ... Married in May ... PREGNANT soon after .... I was going to start another blog to post just baby stuff but umm yeah ... I barely keep it together over here so we just gone keep Friday's as BABY UPDATES! Finally ending my first trimester here soon ( or already depending on which website you get on chillleeee that's another story ) I am crawling out of the sickness hole - ready to chat it up! So I knew about morning sickness before I got pregnant. I knew that, but ummmmmmm what I didn't know about is ALL DAY SICKNESS!! I suffered for about 2.5 months with all day sickness before I got my drugs . I mean I would hiccup and all hell would break loose! One day I coughed, did you read that .... I COUGHED ... and  had to grab the nearest bag to let loose. Dehydrated. Frustrated. Hungry. Just .... I'm now to the point were it's occasionally, where my praise dancers at?!  and my got my TWO prescriptions filled to fight back! I lost over 10 pounds but they

That One Time I Got Married

This post is long over due but dah welp! My life has been a ROLLER-COASTER to say the least since 2016 began. But in May of 2016 , this ma'am got MERRIED!!! Yes MERRIED! Quick Breakdown : My Dress : ordered offline Our Hair : Annoited Hands, Amber Davis Bridesmaids :Designed and made by Bianca Loren Make Up : Brianna( myself and a few bridesmaids ), Some Mac Workers, Some bridesmaids Groom & Groomsmen : Savvy Flower Girl : Etsy Flappers : Halloween Customs Online Little Men : Belk & their closets (lol) Brides Mother : David's Bridal Grooms Mother : Dillards All Decoration & Floral arrangements : I Do ... Creations with a little help from my husband Wedding Director : Mrs. Milicent Wedding Coordinator : MIL Cocktail Hour Set : Tina Ok so my wedding was a big one. We had about 440 people there. Planned for 500, so we were in the clear on setting! The great thing is a lot of people who RSVP'd didn't show and A LOT of people that didn't