* enters twerk mode *
Random post fa that ass! This engagement has my world UP SIDE DOWN. So after this party, I will be back like like roaches in the projects :)
Until then I'll pop in and out if I want to say sum sum ..
Well let's get jiggy with it
1. Why must all divorced people try to give me advice? Like I get it, I really do but it feels more like your saying BITCH RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK more than "making sure I know what I am getting into." I flat out had to tell this lady at my job, umm it sounds like you didn't know who you were married to, I would like to think after 10 PLUS years I know my fiance. You ol' cat ladies kill me umkay! Find you a pipe dream and get busy girls.
2. If you have no $$$ going towards this wedding ... I suggest you STFU! Also, yes the brides father is suppose to pay for the wedding, but unless I want to get married at Delano Park with a 20 piece Popeye's family meal, with no drank, no napkins, no plates, no seats, in a linen outfit ... I will be paying for my own wedding. I'm not asking anyone for money out of their pockets so keep those comments about " oh ya daddy pose to pay for this that and the third " " that's to much " " that's gone be ugly " " why you wearing that " way over yanda' ways. And Yes my step father would buy the whole damn Decatur up for me but that's not what this number is about .....
3. I'm losing weight .. AGAIN. We all know my battles, long nights crying, diets, shakes, and all crazy mood swing shit I have been doing. This is just a little encouragement for those getting back on the trail .... It's hard .. and I'm no where NEAR where I want to be. This is now into my second month of working out. My first month I lost NO WEIGHT! I was so ready to say fuck allll this shit, I'm just gone be a big bride. But I didn't stop going to the gym. I changed some things up, found a fitness group, reached out to my super fitness aware uncle for help and within 3 weeks I dropped 7 pounds. Now if you are anything like me you say .. girl 7 pounds in 3 week aint shit. But i have learned slow and steady is the way girl. Other people can see my itty bitty weight lost, but I can't. That's ok! I'm going to keep going to the gym and eating correctly. Now I still have my little candy and chips some times but hey I'm only human and I keep alllllll that at a minimum.
4. You have the right to be with whomever you want to be with.... BBBUUUTTTT ... don't be out here looking like an idiot. You cannot let a person continue to use you, cheat on you, lie to you because you love them. #SWERVE Love yourself enough to know you deserve better. No you might not find that someone right this instant but don't be happy 40 % of your relationship when this person is giving 60% of YOUR relationship to SOMEONE ELSE. At some point you are going to get tired of saying " they know where home is " and your going to find someone to build the house, get there before you, paint the house, water the grass to make sure it stays as green as the other side of the fence .... but y'all don't hear me tho ...
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