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Say What Now?




I had the same feeling both times I heard this. Say what now? I don't know if I'm more nervous for the kid or the parents. Either way I'm nervous. I feel like I need to read up on everything, start planning check in dates, day cares, what you can and can't eat ... and these aren't even my damn kids!!! Blood pressure is HHHHIIIGGGGHHHH.

So first we will start with MEM :

They are 2 months in and she's nervous. Girl, so am I. He offered to let her move in with him but she is not ready for that. She told him that they needed to actually date and get to know each other before all of that. Which I still scratch my head because ...... you let him fuck you raw girl. Remember that part? I guess not. He has called off his engagement to whatsherface and no one seems to have anything to say about it. I know he is financially able to take care of a child but mentally ,,,ya'll pray for him. Hell pray for me because I'm gone be stressed out these next 6 months. Whew!!! Remember when his other ex got pregnant and he went and bought all that shit 'for the baby not to even be his ....

Nina : .............. I swear I could choke the shit out of this girl ..... Yes Nina is pregnant. Her "baby daddy" because this man has YET to ask her to be his girl ..... is excited. He has also given her rules and an assistant. Do you hear what I am saying. This girl don't do shit and she has a damn assistant. I promise you this assistant is just there to spy on her. She so "in love" her crazy ass is excited to "boss" someone around. Ch.... I guess. Her and the "assistant" are going house shopping because she doesn't want to raise a baby in penthouse of the hotel. *eye roll* He hasn't met her parents and she hasn't his. I'm starting to think she doesn't even know this man's last name. Good thing is she will graduate in May but her baby fawtha doesn't think she should walk.
I'll update more later ... my head hurts and I got two other baby mamas crying in my gah damn inbox....... IM OUT!!


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