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Baby's Out - Now What?!

HHHHHHHHHHIIIIIIIIIIIIIII!!!!

I been gone for a minute now I'm back with the jump off.

So the baby is OUT! The marriage has hit it's first year mark! NAW WHA GIRL!

I have been asking myself that for that last week now. Today my little sweet baby is in his swing and mama has actually COOKED DINNER! Ya'll I done cookeded a meal! Like a meat and two sides type meal. I'm proud LOL! A few weeks ago I would be hoovering over him watching him sleep.

Anywho - back to the question. What am I to do now that baby is out!?  GET TO THIS SHAMONEY IS WHAT!!

Having my son didn't give me a surge of "I gotta get get iittt" (s/o to Jeezy) but it did give me a surge in a timeline. I have always said I want to buy my first house at this age, have this much done by this age and honestly all that moved up a few years now. It feels super weird getting back into business mode now with my son b/c quick jobs I used to do - I now need to find a reliable sitter that can be on call. #noTI Because let a hoe try sleeping with Danny  .....

UMKAY!!
So my plans until the year ends -
1. Get this BAWDY together! Baby weight is gone but 7 pounds. But I wanna lose about 25 more pounds. Nah y'all check on me from time to time. I don't wanna celebrate my babies first birthday and be heavier than I am now. He also isn't having a 1st birthday party, cause I'm not trying to feed grown folks for celebrating something his little ass isn't gonna remember. BUTTTT that's another topic for another post!
2. All businesses back in order!!!! Getting these domains and websites back in order hunny!
3. Learn how to manage being a mom,wife and business owner. CCAAAUUSSEEE me no wanna go back to corporate america.
4. Get this blog back up and popping. I STILL get DMEM letters for advice. I got ya'll!!

Major S/O to my husband for holding mini him and me for the past year!! Follow me on the snap to see the baby and me getting my life back together @itsfattie !

IM OUTCHERE!!

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